Awkwardness

[minimoya]

I envy all of y'all when you say, I experiment or do this with xyz guys. I am so bad at making things awkward. In August, my girlfriend broke up with me, which I have mixed emotions about. But Ben before that, I have been physically attracted to guys and emotionally to girls. I couldn't really say officially for guys because I've never experimented. At my high school, anything can get around and we have some of the most judgmental people you'll ever meet. I'm a stupid freshman, so of something gets out, I'm stuck with it. I would like to experiment/be pleasures by my two bet friends who I talk with often, but I make things so awkward. How do I put the awkwardness aside? Also, after trimming a few moths ago, should I trim my pubes again? It just is so itchy afterward.

[dude14]

It's ok I know what your talking about. My school is a small idiot school that every one knows every one and everything. which is why
You dont experiment there. I have never experimented but I have I guess friends with benefits set up outside of school. If you feel awkward about telling your close friends, don't stress. I didn't think my close friends would like it but I told them I wanted to experiment and it turned out so did they. Which is in almost every case. Still we never really did anything. And you can trim when ever you want lol.

[willy93]

well hopefully you can trust your best friends and they won't judge/tell anyone, i wouldn't ask to experiment start with a discussion about jo then see where it leads (and i trim about once a week)

[skandardude]

I agree with the second post in this thread. You may want to refrain from pursuit of your physical attractions at your school if you truly feel like the result would be detrimental. But it is totally normal to want to experiment with other boys, like most of us at one point in time usually do. You have to find those persons to experiment with and you have to have 110% confidence in their confidence in you. Because if they are truly your friends they will not embarrass you or want you to be publicly ostracized. But if these guys are truly your friends, which is a question only you can answer, (and you need to ensure that they are), they will probably be receptive to further strengthening that bond. Experimentation is a totally natural and normal thing.

Also, in respect to putting the awkwardness aside, it's just something you have to cut through. If you do get to a stage where you are going to experiment, there will be some awkwardness. But if you truly want to feel the thrill of experimentation you have to cut through it and push through it. It will be hard, but you just gotta do it sometimes.

Furthermore, you may trim how you like. It will take several times of you doing it to withstand the itchiness, but it only gets better.

[minimoya]

I am also a really self-concious person as any other human would be. I don't know exactly how it works, but I don't know if I would be willing to show my package. Also, if I would have to, going commando is a huge problem for me. As I have mentioned many times, I have constepation and issues getting rid of solid waste. My ass isn't always sparkly clean or hollowed out all the time, so I would be really nervous. Any tips?

[minimoya]

You say to start it off by talking about sex and jacking off and size, right? I'll have to see when I can do this.