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madness97
December 21st, 2011, 10:47 PM
ok so me and my girlfriend was on webcam and we was talking for a few hours, she wanted to see my dick, but i couldnt get it hard, i was so embarrased, its never happened before, i really like this girl and, im meeting her in a couple days and were going to have sex, im a virgin, shes not, any advice?

Ace_of_Spades
December 22nd, 2011, 06:53 PM
I'm sure the only reason you couldn't is because you may have been embarrassed. I'm sure it should be fine when your with her, and she should understand.

Giles
December 22nd, 2011, 06:59 PM
Embarrassment and nerves. That's what seems to affect people when they have sexual interaction in real life so it makes sense that it would have a similar effect via the internet.

boss22
December 22nd, 2011, 07:08 PM
ok 1st, idk why u could not get hard, but dont worry, u will get hard wen u start. 2nd i wud be very careful, hopefully u have met this girl b4, if u havent, she cud be 1 of those "bang and run" girls.. so becareful, 3rd, make sure u use protection.... i highly stress that, and if u dont have any condems, she might, but if she doent, just masturbate with her, u dont need to makin a girl pregnet

Camazot
December 22nd, 2011, 07:14 PM
u might have been uncomfortable with doing it over webcam
try it in person im sure it be better

Tonebone88
December 22nd, 2011, 07:45 PM
I think you were just nervous because you wanted to impress her. You should take a hot bath or something before hand to relax yourself a bit.

Lawrence P
December 22nd, 2011, 07:49 PM
Most likely you where nervous and when you are nervous you blood pressure doesn't rise causing an erection not to form. So it doesn't mean anything really.

stuo
December 22nd, 2011, 07:53 PM
When your in the situation with her, believe me you w ont have no problem getting hard, think the problem will be spunking too quick

deleteextreme
December 24th, 2011, 03:40 AM
Its normal. I'm sure she will understand.

hhhfiuashfosihdf
December 24th, 2011, 09:42 AM
Just make sure you relax ect, I'm sure you will be fine

tetoo123
December 24th, 2011, 12:24 PM
It's probably cause you were just nervous or werent comfortable doing it over webcam, what could help is just relax and think of something that always turns you on.

Vian
December 24th, 2011, 02:37 PM
ok so me and my girlfriend was on webcam and we was talking for a few hours, she wanted to see my dick, but i couldnt get it hard, i was so embarrased, its never happened before, i really like this girl and, im meeting her in a couple days and were going to have sex, im a virgin, shes not, any advice?

Sorry about that. Yeah, you don't worry! The guys are right. It was possibly the webcam situation that made you find yourself unable to get it hard. But You'll have the chance to show her what you've got personally. ;)

anubisgodofdead
December 24th, 2011, 02:53 PM
just think of something or someone that turns you on. You probably couldn't get hard be cause you we're nervous too.

tinead
March 30th, 2012, 01:12 AM
dont worry mate a lot of guys cant get hard sometimes an its even happend to me.
i went out one night and got very drunk but some how i pull this nice girl..
when i took her home we both got naked but as i drank so much i was not able to get a hard on at all . she did try to get me hard but she gave up an just walked out on me.

Saxophone 44
March 30th, 2012, 02:09 AM
Just don't jack off three days before you lose the V-Card.