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Cicero
December 21st, 2011, 10:40 PM
*I'm straight but curious.




So when I see a pretty girl, I don't really think anything dirty (at the most I look at her butt and boobs). I simply think "Wow, she's really pretty! I hope I have a girl like that be my wife some day!"

But when I look at a good looking guy I think. "Wow what I would do to him ;)". I've been looking at guys on the site, and wow they are all good looking! But I've only seen a few pretty looking girls.

I feel like with good looking guys, I don't critique them much. But pretty girls I critique a whole lot. What does this mean?

Why do I think what I think about girls vs. guys?

Why do I think with girls, wow I'd like to marry her (or hope my wife looks like her)?
But why do I think with good looking guys, wow I would give that guy a bj and hj and everything (and him the same to me)?
Does this mean I'm straight but still just curious?

I'm just very stressed, because as I said above. I think everything dirty I'd do with guys. But I'd think with girls wow she's pretty I'd want my wife to look like her. What does that mean?



*thank you all so much for answering my repetitive questions! I've asked these questions over and over again (in this post and others) and I just want to say thanks for not getting annoyed with me!

Its just something I get stressed about and nervous about. Again THANK YOU!!!!!!!!

Cicero
December 21st, 2011, 10:42 PM
Oh, but girls like Kim kardshian, kourtney kardshian, gwyneth paltrow, and Ron Howard's daughter (the one who played brockes girlfriend in spiderman) make me definitely think I wanna marry them!

Unsolvedmind
December 21st, 2011, 11:57 PM
Yes it is normal especially during puberty with all the raging hormones

ShotgunShells
December 22nd, 2011, 12:49 AM
When I see the girl I really have feelings for, I don't think anything dirty. However, when I see a random hot girl, I think all kinds of things and maybe drool a little bit. I think it is because I don't want anything to happen to the girl I like. My feelings for her are mostly emotional, but for random hot girls it is purely sexual. They can burn in hell for all I care. That special girl, though, if anyone even looks at her the wrong way, I want to punch their faces in. Pardon me, I lost track of what I was trying to accomplish here. Maybe your feelings for girls and boys are like mine for her and random hot chicks. Your feelings for girls may be on a deeper, more emotional level than your feelings for boys, which seem to only be sexual.

irish_dude_16
June 28th, 2012, 06:56 PM
i accually feel the same way dude :D

Pedro Fernandes
July 17th, 2012, 07:26 PM
Feel the same way :D

But im not that good looking xD

DerBear
July 17th, 2012, 07:35 PM
This thread was bumped in June. :locked: