My Fucked Up Existence

[Thylacine]

I'm sexually and emotionally attracted to men and emotionally attracted to women. I can full in love with a woman for her personality and I know which women are attractive and which ones are grotesque yet they are as sexually arousing as a piece of blue cheese. It's so frustrating and confusing. I try and just focus on guys and then get floored by an amazing girl. But the thought of fucking her... Vomit. I fail at being gay. I'm 16 been on here for years and feel I should have this sorted but I'm so confused and I don't wanna hurt people.

[Harley Quinn]

Sexuality is a confusing thing and the thing you have to remember is that it's fluid, it doesn't always have to be one specific gender or anything like that. If sexuality was something determined by something as simple as who you want to fuck, it's pointless, it's about more then that and so, no you shouldn't have sorted it out by now. While I'm not saying it's great to be confused, I'm saying that it's all develops at different rates. It's fluid, not simple.

[Donkey]

you have a lot of time to think about what you want man. truth me told, i'm hardly 100% comfortable in saying i'm gay. there's still space for that to change and i haven't ruled out girls completely at all. just like who you like and leave it there man, you don't need to label yourself

[Darkness.]

Try not to worry about your Sexuality too much, it will sort itself in time.

[Guillermo]

Dude..there's nothing wrong with you, and there's no rush in "figuring out" your sexuality..I'm pretty much going through the same thing, and I would hesitate to consider myself 100% gay because i also have some attraction to women..these things will sort themselves out and just remember there's nothing wrong with you man

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[TheMightyBruce]

I agree with everyone. Finding out your sexuality is a journey on its own...Its gonna take awhile and its definitely gonna be confusing. I still can't tell if I'm straight or bi...

[shadowhunter320]

Have close friends that are girls, and sexual relationships with guys.

[pridepancakes21]

Now matter how confused you are right now, try not to make it the focus for your life. You can be confused and still live a great life. And with time you would have certainty in which gender you would rather be with.