What does it mean to be emotionally connected to a guy?

[Cicero]

So I asked a question about if I were gay. They said I wasn't, but they then said youre gay if you can be emotional or whatever with them.

Because I can imagine myself giving handjobs and things along that line. But I can't imagine telling them about my feelings. Or I can't imagine a future with guys. I imagine a future with girls not guys. One thing with me is that I think about guys (in a gayish way) in ways of looks and their body. One thing that all the guys I think about have in common is a good body. Like abs pecs, happy trail and leg hair and armpit hair (usually it's things I don't have, but I do have leg hair).

As I said earlier I asked a question about if I were gay, and comments said I wasn't and that it's normal for teen guys to think about stuff like that. But a few other comments said, you're only gay if you can be emotional with them (or something like that I forgot). So what's that mean?


Because reading those comments made me feel better until I read about the emotional part.

[Cicero]

Oh ya, I also can imagine myself in like a little fool around night where I do everything I've wanted. But I couldn't imagine myself in any long term thing with a guy. I could just imagine trying things out.

[Ender]

Emotionally connected? Meaning sharing feeling for eachother, talking about your feelings, etc.

[Xandle]

Emotionally connected is like imagining a future, imagining kissing them and being in love. Imagine proposing and getting married. If you can't imagine that with a guy then, from what I've been told, you're probably not gay. You sound like me. I was really attracted to hot guys and fantasized about them loads, but I never had feelings for them, I had feelings for girls, so I've come to the conclusion that I'm not gay. It was a really emotional time for me, so I really hope you work it all out :)

[ImCoolBeans]

Moved to Teen Sexuality.

[tetoo123]

From what it sounds like your not gay. Your only gay if you have emotions for a guy like you cant see yourself with a girl and say you like a guy not just for his looks but you could see yourself falling in love with him. Basically you see yourself falling in love with a girl right? If you cant see yourself liking a guy for more than his looks, your not gay your curious. But i cant tell you if your gay or not so just think about this and you'll know