Is this wrong?

[BillyBob41]

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[Unsolvedmind]

Yes it's totally ok as long as you keep it safe

[MalditoDia]

Like anal? of course its okayy just make sure your protected cuz. but if its sex are you both sure your not bisexusl or gay?

[BullDogg13]

Yeah then ur not str8

[Kdude146]

ya it is ok but I think you guys might be gay/bi

[Psychintraining]

I think that is up to you. There is way to much contextual evidence that I would have no way of knowing to give any valid opinion. Personally, I think 14 may be slightly too young but some people definitely have sex younger. Ignoring the age, I think it is acceptable as long as both parties are totally willing, and no one is made to feel bad about themselves, or to feel uncomfortable. In that vein, trust is important. Remember that, that is private, and personally, and isn't either of your business to "share" or "publicize."


That being said, I would say continue to do what feels right and feels natural. Sex is a natural part of who we are as humans. Humans are sexually polygamous beings and it is naturally to want to experiment, explore and to be and feel intimate. I say kudos to your honesty, and kudos to your wondering and asking whether your behavior is safe, and if it should continue.

Stay curious (intellectually, I mean), and it'll serve you well; at least it always has served me well, in my own experience.

:)

[awesome 4some]

why protection? i doubt either of them will have STDs at 14

[ExhibitG]

it's okay, but you both might want to reexamine your sexuality. it's doubtful you are completely straight.

[Ender]

If your enjoying having sex with a guy then your at least bi

Not necessarily. Experimenting can be fun but meaningless.

Getting a blowjob can be the same experience with both a guy and a girl.

[lilj231]

Have fun with that but you need to use a condom or something unless you want some stds...unless you want that???

[Jose]

Im bi and i think u guys maybe also and thats cool i always wear a condom because i have with a few guys and girls if ur sure he and u have only been tith each other then go for it be sure

[BillyBob41]

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[thecanjump]

It's possible that they could be bi or gay but a lot of gay porn stars are straight. Sure they do it for money but what's the difference when just doing it for fun? If they only do it for the fun and pleasure they can still be straight. Only you yourself can truly determine your sexuality.

[Tonebone88]

I think it is normal to want to do some sexual stuff with other boys at your age. I don't know if having sex with your friend makes you gay, but you might want to consider it more closely. It may be that you're actually gay or it may just be hormones... only you can know for sure. It takes some time to figure out, but I'm sure you will.

[Mrs. Mustache]

why protection? i doubt either of them will have STDs at 14

U have to be sure you are safe. . .

[antiabort]

it's not gay if balls don't touch

[TheRev]

eh could be bi/gay... its called gay sex for a reason tho. but at 14 ik most guys would bang anything just be safe

[darthreilly]

alright heres the thing.. if you guys are having sex at sleepovers on multiple occasions... curiosity has to end somewhere and become a lifestyle ha. ive sure messed around a ton and i used to blame it on my raging hormones and swear i was straight but i was just "superrr curious" but now im 17 and i cant hide behind a wall of hormones. im bi and dudes turn me on... the same way they turned me on when i was 16.. or 15.. or 14 or 13 ha. whatever makes you happy is the way you should live.. why else? be safe by using protection and respect yourself. ha but follow your heart and you'll live a much fuller life than the guy who hides in his shadow chasing what he knows he doesnt want.

[vtRED]

sounds gay to me.. what you said is more then experimenting, your getting borderline gay, if that, and thats being generous.

[bryce9]

It's okay to be gay I think you guys are gay but it's cool if you like it

[ExhibitG]

alright heres the thing.. if you guys are having sex at sleepovers on multiple occasions... curiosity has to end somewhere and become a lifestyle ha. ive sure messed around a ton and i used to blame it on my raging hormones and swear i was straight but i was just "superrr curious" but now im 17 and i cant hide behind a wall of hormones. im bi and dudes turn me on... the same way they turned me on when i was 16.. or 15.. or 14 or 13 ha. whatever makes you happy is the way you should live.. why else? be safe by using protection and respect yourself. ha but follow your heart and you'll live a much fuller life than the guy who hides in his shadow chasing what he knows he doesnt want.

i have a lot of respect for you.

[Lawrence P]

why protection? i doubt either of them will have STDs at 14

Because That is how STD's are passed. People who think "It Wont Happen To Me"

Also if you are not sexual or emotional attached to the same sex then you are not gay. Your experience could be "Just sex" and doesn't define your sexuality. It's like prison rape, you are just getting there rocks off.

[stuo]

It sounds like your BI, but you shouldn't be focusing on giving yourself a label, have fun and go with the flow, sexuality isn't a choice

[coolcman]

It's okay to have sexual experiences at your age just be careful with what you do it could be unsafe like anal

[Fordmustangman]

i have a lot of respect for you.

Agree with darthreilly and I also agree with exhibitg

[Rogan_Vos]

why protection? i doubt either of them will have STDs at 14

STDs aside, anal sex is still risky hygiene-wise without protection, cos it still involves the penis penetrating the anus, if you see where I'm going... *shudder*

That grossness aside, I think its pretty awesome you've found someone you like. Maybe you're gay, maybe you're not. Its worth noting that something like 10% of men in the world have at one point had a sexual experience with another man, so just stay safe and you two will be fine.

[patrick2010]

if u both enjoy it then i say keep doing what
u are enjoying no reason to stop its fine u are
both doing it

[frunziss]

Do all you like! If you enjoy it, do it.

[Patuxent78]

I'm 13 and I did everything with a boy by the time I was 12. Still working on that with girls. I know I'm bi and not gay because I love breasts and I love girls but I know I love the other aspect which is guys, not emotionally but just the sex part. You aren't alone. I guess with porn being really easy to access and in my case open and sexually free parents, kids will have sex earlier and earlier.