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thecheesyguy
December 19th, 2011, 10:43 PM
So i've got this problem..

A friend of mine asked me about my sexual orientation.. and i'm honestly not really sure. So he told me to do what he did:

I tried a little experiment.. First i watched straight porn , got a boner and j/o. then I watch gay porn , got a boner and j/o.. My friend told me he only got turned on by the straight porn, so he's straight (that his opinion) And there's this guy at school that I find atractive, and i;ve had these fantasies about this guy, if you know what I mean.. Then there's this girl and it's the exact same thing and i'm just confused.

Are this hormones? Am I gay or something? Am I just loosing my mind? Don't get me wrong, that's just it, it's that guy. I get sick when i try imagining another guy (if you know what i mean)...

So, i clearly need some help.. please...

Maxxie
December 19th, 2011, 10:51 PM
Mate, it doesn't matter what kind of label you give yourself. You're you no matter what arbitrary pattern of lathers "describes" you.

That being said, your hormones are through the roof right now and you're "curious". So what? You know what you like, you don't need labels to dictate what you can and can't fuck.

Don't fret. It's just sexuality.

Tonebone88
December 19th, 2011, 10:56 PM
I think it may be too early for you to know for sure. If you are turned on by both gay and straight porn, it might indicate that you're bi

Bmatlman
December 19th, 2011, 10:56 PM
i would say you bi-curious. dont worry about it though, alot of my friends are like that. its all in because hormones.

willy93
December 20th, 2011, 07:31 PM
i think there are more factors to consider than just what you jerk off to to decide your orientation, like physical and emotional attraction

Giles
December 20th, 2011, 09:51 PM
I'm just going to suggest that you follow the cliché and don't try to label yourself. It's a strange part of your life to be in and I realise that because I was there for about 6 months of my life, but there's not a lot you can do about it. Hormonal changes can affect what you feel and what you do so it's not good to base your sexuality purely on any one set of factors at a given time. See if you're feeling the same way in a few days, weeks, months etc. and then maybe consider rethinking yourself.

curious_boy_13
December 30th, 2011, 09:08 AM
that dont make you bi.

Somebuddy
December 30th, 2011, 03:53 PM
I'm pretty sure your bi