Silentkink
December 19th, 2011, 10:02 PM
Ok, I have a pretty big problem, well not big in the scope of the world, but big for a high schooler. So ever since last year I have really like this girl, but I never actually got the courage to talk to her because one of my friends told me she was going out with someone. I found out later that year she wasn't going out with anyone, but she wasn't in any of my classes and I wasn't on Facebook, so contact with her was tough.
Fast forward to this year, and I was pleased to find out that she was in 6 out of my 8 classes, but once again I could not find the courage to talk to her for the first 3 1/2 months of school.
So once again fast forward to now, or really 3 weeks ago, I told one of my close friends that I liked this girl, and that I needed her help to find out if she was dating anyone at the time, she gladly helped, and I was pleased to find out she wasn't going out with anyone. This was great news, but there was only one problem my friend accidentally told the girl that I like, that I liked her. So, for the past 3 weeks his girl has known that i like her, and wants me to talk to her, but because of my friend telling her that I liked her, I still couldn't find the courage to talk to her.
So, this girl has just recently went on a diving team meet so she wasn't in school for the past few days, and I still hadn't told this girl how I felt, but there was one good thing my friend who told her that I liked her gave me a golden opportunity to finally begin to talk to her, she gave me the girl I like number.
So, for the past 3 nights me and the girl I like have been texting for about 3-4 hours a night, but I still haven't told her how I actually feel about her, because I refuse to tell her via text message. While we were texting I learned so much more about her, and I learned that I have so much more in common with her than I ever could have imagined. I also learned that I care for this girl much more than I ever thought I did.
So, this brings me to the actual questions, and that is how should I tell her that I like her, and when should I ask her out on a date? She is back in school tomorrow, and we have school until Friday, so that gives me 3 days to confess my feelings to her. I have never felt this way about someone before, so I really need your help more than ever.
Now, I know that most of you will say ket this play out, and talk a little here and there, but I have had feelings for this girl for over a year, and if I could just get a date with her over Christmas break it would make me the happiest person in the world, or if I can't get a date I want to be able to at least tell her how I fee before the break.
So, thanks in advance guys I know this was a long read, and appreciate anyone who actually read it and responded, please guys I am really desperate right now. Once again the two questions are "How and when should I tell her that I like her," and "When should I ask her out on a date."
Fast forward to this year, and I was pleased to find out that she was in 6 out of my 8 classes, but once again I could not find the courage to talk to her for the first 3 1/2 months of school.
So once again fast forward to now, or really 3 weeks ago, I told one of my close friends that I liked this girl, and that I needed her help to find out if she was dating anyone at the time, she gladly helped, and I was pleased to find out she wasn't going out with anyone. This was great news, but there was only one problem my friend accidentally told the girl that I like, that I liked her. So, for the past 3 weeks his girl has known that i like her, and wants me to talk to her, but because of my friend telling her that I liked her, I still couldn't find the courage to talk to her.
So, this girl has just recently went on a diving team meet so she wasn't in school for the past few days, and I still hadn't told this girl how I felt, but there was one good thing my friend who told her that I liked her gave me a golden opportunity to finally begin to talk to her, she gave me the girl I like number.
So, for the past 3 nights me and the girl I like have been texting for about 3-4 hours a night, but I still haven't told her how I actually feel about her, because I refuse to tell her via text message. While we were texting I learned so much more about her, and I learned that I have so much more in common with her than I ever could have imagined. I also learned that I care for this girl much more than I ever thought I did.
So, this brings me to the actual questions, and that is how should I tell her that I like her, and when should I ask her out on a date? She is back in school tomorrow, and we have school until Friday, so that gives me 3 days to confess my feelings to her. I have never felt this way about someone before, so I really need your help more than ever.
Now, I know that most of you will say ket this play out, and talk a little here and there, but I have had feelings for this girl for over a year, and if I could just get a date with her over Christmas break it would make me the happiest person in the world, or if I can't get a date I want to be able to at least tell her how I fee before the break.
So, thanks in advance guys I know this was a long read, and appreciate anyone who actually read it and responded, please guys I am really desperate right now. Once again the two questions are "How and when should I tell her that I like her," and "When should I ask her out on a date."