Sex problems haha

[redmann]

ok so i have this problem with like relaxing when i have sex which if your on the bottom is pretty much essential or it hurts like hell or doesnt work. Anyway the only time i can relax enough is to have a couple drinks so i relax a little more (not even tipsy) Am i just too uptight or am i just not fully comfortable with the guy? We broke up anyway so it doesnt matter now but i kind of wondered

[blackpo]

it could have been u were too excited or u just weren't that into the guy

[deleteextreme]

it could have been u were too excited or u just weren't that into the guy

Yes, Exactly.

[BossHogg]

It seems llike you still have a nervous tendoncy when you have sex and if it hurt well he's too tight for you or something but to relax you got to calm down and go with the flow think about something else

[kyleb]

i finger myself to practice relaxing...

[charlie3322]

well i was that way until i fingered alittle. now its fine and feels amazing when i bottom

[prob1996]

it could have been u were too excited or u just weren't that into the guy

i finger myself to practice relaxing...

Agree with all of the above :P



It seriously could be a combo of the three. The key advice I got was to relax. Once I got comfortable with the idea of sex or who I was with--things worked out much better!!:D