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BradyW97
December 18th, 2011, 09:30 PM
my bestest ever friend is going through a rough time and she really needs some help. she is having nightmares about how her dad dies in a car accident and her nan dies and she had been cutting for a while but has stopped just recently but she had an urge to yesterday. if anyone can help me to give her some advice i would really appriciate it.
Core
December 18th, 2011, 10:50 PM
Get her some help b4 she seriously hurts her self
Contra
December 19th, 2011, 09:15 PM
I think the best you can do is just be there for her, talk to her about her fears and let her vent them out. You can also take her out and do some fun stuff together, that should put her off those bad thoughts.
To sum it up, just be a friend to her, that's what she needs.
Oath
December 20th, 2011, 01:52 AM
Support her. If she is cutting, tell her to stop. Talk with her, figure out why she is upset. I see she has family problems, that is very normal. Death and sickness within family members can cause tension for some. Nightmares are also normal, so inform her that having nightmares isn't anything to be all worked up about. Comfort her, go out to lunch or something and sit and chat. Talk about everything that has her depressed and upset.
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