Help Please.

[chazgp]

I like this girl and she likes me too. She has a boyfriend tho. No one knows. The problem is that yesterday her bf started flirting with girls and telling them he doesnt have a girlfriend. She found out and im helping her through it. Its a awkward situation because now im caught in the middle of this. I need a way to tell her that maybe he is just a untrustworthy guy, but i dont want to sound like im trying to split them up.

[TheMatrix]

TWPR :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Scotland]

Just do your best to help her, she'll appreciate this alot, wait till she is single then tell her that you have feelings for her. Itll be hard not to show your feelings but if you care for her youll do whats in her best interests :)

[ackmedsgirl666]

help her deal with her boyfriend support her and show u care
compliment her tell her how beautiful/nice/smart etc she is and eventually she will start to see the other side of u and who knows maybe she already likes u too :)

[Ambrosia]

Tell her anyways. Use the entire "I'm a dude, he's a dude, thus I know dudes..." approach. Straight up tell her that you know simply from experience with friends doing the same thing that he is just untrustworthy, and that you don't want to seem like you want them to break up, but you care way too much for her -as a friend- that you don't want to see her get hurt. Now I understand you might not like this idea, the younger you are the harder it might be to take such a direct approach in an indirect way, but it will work. I've used this plenty of times on males whom I had feelings for, who were dating bitches. Just make it clear that you are a caring friend who just wants to help her.