my boyfriend's penis

[katie14]

hey guys and girls,

im 14 and my bf is 16.

i need advice about his penis size because weve had sex a few times now but im just not happy :( i think its tiny!

my previous bf was 15 and i lost my virginity to him, he was very thick and i really enjoyed it!

Help would be nice please folks x

[Victor]

how big is your current bf?
in cm's?

[anonymous53]

Talk to him about it, it's not just the "size" You need to tell him what you like. Communication is key.

[antiabort]

Maybe you shouldn't have been banging horse cocks before you met him? Sorry for gettin mad, I just rage when I see posts like this.

[theonetheycallbob]

Size really isn't the key. It's how it is used. Talk to him about what you like to happen. Tell him what feels good and what isn't working. If you truly care about him, you shouldn't let something like that get in the way.

[lilj231]

Maybe you should stop being a streetwalker or just do what you probably are going to do is dump him ,but i'm sure you have a bunch of other people on the side..well have a nice day!!

[Giles]

If he's so small to the extent that you're not feeling it and/or he's not pleasuring you then you should talk to him about it. There's different methods of sex that provide pleasure for all parties.

[AppealToReason]

Maybe you should stop being a streetwalker or just do what you probably are going to do is dump him ,but i'm sure you have a bunch of other people on the side..well have a nice day!!

Maybe you shouldn't have been banging horse cocks before you met him? Sorry for gettin mad, I just rage when I see posts like this.


Goddamn. Get the fuck out of the help section if you're just going to insult the girl.
OP, do as Giles said and talk to him about it.

[Emiil]

Goddamn. Get the fuck out of the help section if you're just going to insult the girl.
OP, do as Giles said and talk to him about it.

I agree.

[NiallC]

Maybe try different positions that limit how wide you open so that when he has inserted his penis you can feel it more or try other things like oral sex that will pleasure you both.

Try asking him what he feels about his penis as well because you don't really wanna go upsetting him about it if he is already unhappy with it or something.

Also it shouldn't be your main concern anyway, it is one small (mind the pun) part to your relationship and should not really make you depressed - unless you are only in it for the sex though I am not saying you are.

[kenoloor]

If he's so small to the extent that you're not feeling it and/or he's not pleasuring you then you should talk to him about it. There's different methods of sex that provide pleasure for all parties.

This.

[MrBojangles]

69 it out? If you're fine with it, you can try 69ing with him. It benefits both parties, and it's a great position. Just be sure that the lighter person is on top so the bottom person doesn't get squashed hahaha Hope I helped - Dan

[Short Circuit]

Boys in general, are very insecure about the size of their penis's, the worst thing he would want to hear from you is "Man your small".

As others have said, try it in different positions, find the one that you and he enjoys the most, sex is not just for making babies, it is for enjoyment as well.

[Mind Blank]

My god. Why is everyone losing their virginity at 13/14 these days?
Why the rush?

If you really want to be with him, it wouldn't matter how big it is.

[kenoloor]

My god. Why is everyone losing their virginity at 13/14 these days?
Why the rush?

If you really want to be with him, it wouldn't matter how big it is.

Not necessarily true.

[Sire]

If he's so small to the extent that you're not feeling it and/or he's not pleasuring you then you should talk to him about it. There's different methods of sex that provide pleasure for all parties.

/jump on Gile's opinion


Agreed.

[Jagz]

Boys in general, are very insecure about the size of their penis's, the worst thing he would want to hear from you is "Man your small".

As others have said, try it in different positions, find the one that you and he enjoys the most, sex is not just for making babies, it is for enjoyment as well.

I agree. I remember when I had sex for the first time with a former GF. It was her first time so she did not really know what to expect so it worked out fine. But ass we had sex more and more she began to realize I wasn't the biggest sheep in the heard. YES IT'S A METAPHOR! So she left me for my friend who was 1.5 inches bigger than me. So if size is a problem for you then maybe you shouldn't be dating at all because once you get t the top there is no where to go but down.

[Jagz]

Boys in general, are very insecure about the size of their penis's, the worst thing he would want to hear from you is "Man your small".

As others have said, try it in different positions, find the one that you and he enjoys the most, sex is not just for making babies, it is for enjoyment as well.

I agree. I remember when I had sex for the first time with a former GF. It was her first time so she did not really know what to expect so it worked out fine. But ass we had sex more and more she began to realize I wasn't the biggest sheep in the heard. YES IT'S A METAPHOR! So she left me for my friend who was 1.5 inches bigger than me. So if size is a problem for you then maybe you shouldn't be dating at all because once you get t the top there is no where to go but down.

[TDB95]

i say that you should tell ur bf that you want to try different things and keep that up until you find a way that you like

[Suicune]

My god. Why is everyone losing their virginity at 13/14 these days?
Why the rush?
Well not everyone is losing their virginity at 13 and 14, but yeah I see your point. I somewhat doubt 14 is the age of consent where she lives.



Anyway, OP, if you feel there's something not right in your (Very young) sex life, then you should talk to your partner about these things. There are other ways, like others have said, that can be enjoyable for the both of you.

[BossHogg]

You need to tell him straight up "I love, but your dick is just not doing it for me, but we can try new things and see if that works" something like that

[katie14]

how big is your current bf?
in cm's?

it just under 2inches erect!!

[Rayquaza]

Yeah you ought to talk to him about different ways of sex, NOT his penis size, it's not his fault that your ex was bigger and you enjoyed it. Saying something like this can really bring him down. Imagine if he saw this post? If you love him then it shouldn't matter. I've heard as a guy that having a clean dick is enough.

it just under 2inches erect!!

Well I doubt it, but if it really is, then he's simply a late bloomer, probably not a good idea to have sex.

[Dimentio]

One you should not be having sex at that age anyway! Two, Penis size is not everything! If you love him you love him for his personality and his care for you! Not his looks, Build or penis size, Sorry if i am coming across rude but i do not think it is good to have sex at such a young age to think of boys only for their penis size.

[Jose]

I think u are making a big deal of the size im 14 and im above average ho ir 16 he is not done growing the big ? Is do u only want him for sex or do u like him for hhm size is not all that matters how he cares about u during sex goes a long way sometimes better than being thick or long just saying

[floridaboy1229]

You shouldn't be haveing sex at 14 in the forst place

[floridaboy1229]

You shouldn't be haveing sex at 14 in the forst place

[BossHogg]

it just under 2inches erect!!

If its really under 2 inches then that tells you he wasnt ready to have sex physically..thats why people need to wait to have sex for awhile until there Mentally, Emotionally, Spiritually, and PHYSICALLY, ready to handle sex...he should of waited till he got bigger...BE PATIENT GUYS OUT THERE...YOUR TIME WILL COME:)

[Giles]

You shouldn't be haveing sex at 14 in the forst place

That's your opinion, not everyone's moral stance.

If its really under 2 inches then that tells you he wasnt ready to have sex physically..thats why people need to wait to have sex for awhile until there Mentally, Emotionally, Spiritually, and PHYSICALLY, ready to handle sex...he should of waited till he got bigger...BE PATIENT GUYS OUT THERE...YOUR TIME WILL COME:)

The fact that you assume he's not physically ready because his penis is 2" could actually be quite offensive. There are some people with that size that are fully developed, they are physically developed just not well endowed and they can have sex.

[Ender]

If he's so small to the extent that you're not feeling it and/or he's not pleasuring you then you should talk to him about it. There's different methods of sex that provide pleasure for all parties.

^Giles always steals my answer.

[deleteextreme]

Just cause he's small doesn't mean he's bad

[Giles]

^Giles always steals my answer.

In your head 'tealing your answers...

[sarahann95]

I personally don't think anyone should be having sex at 14, but that is my own opinion. And, just as everyone else has stated, someone mention it. I wouldn't just come out and say that his penis is too small for you. If you really like the guy, then find ways to make it work. Try different positions or various other things. Just coolly say you want to try other things in your sexual relationship.
And also, there's always the probability that he's a late bloomer, but even if he's not, just try to work it out.

[Just_meh]

its ok, and dw if you love him size is not that important :)