View Full Version : :'(
BiBoy5674
December 17th, 2011, 07:34 PM
I just want to come out, I'm happy with been bisexual but I haven't got the courage to come out to everyone. I've only came to 2 people so far and I just want to get it over and done with and just telll everyone :( why can't I bring my self to come out to everyone? I feel so depressed I just want to be who I am but I can't until I come out, and to top it all off there is a boy who is the same age as me and he is sooooooo goodlooking and I just wish I could be with him but cos I'm not out I can't :'( RANT OVER :'(
Gandalf
December 17th, 2011, 07:55 PM
I know how you feel, being in a similar position. If your not ready, don't rush in.
Especially if it could endager you, or adversly affect you negatively in anyway.
ImCoolBeans
December 18th, 2011, 12:45 PM
Coming out to two people is a huge step, it's remarkable that you had the courage to do that at all. The best advice I can give you is to wait until you feel completely comfortable with the decision. Your time will come, bud :smile:
thecanjump
December 18th, 2011, 06:47 PM
I've only came out to a few people as well but you don't have to tell everyone. I've been trying to work up the courage to tell a boy I like only problem I am having is he is on the hockey team with me and if he is straight (but he seems to be bi/curious) it will leave an awkward feel in the locker room...
As I just said you don't have to tell everyone, you can just be yourself and if anyone has questions about your sexuality go ahead and answer them truthfully. If you aren't friends with this boy you like try and become closer friends with him before you go ahead and tell him every thing. Good luck with what ever you decide to do and "don't worry, be happy" =]
Unsolvedmind
December 18th, 2011, 07:51 PM
i have only came out to one person so 2 people is pretty good and brave and you just have to have a lot of confidence in yourself
BiBoy5674
December 18th, 2011, 08:25 PM
Thanks guys it made me feel a little better :) i just still wish I could be with the boy I like but I think I'm going try to get close to him :) I know for a fact I am comfortable about who I am but when it comes to actually coming out its hard lol I'm just glad I've got such good support from you guys on here! :D
meezyrmcrs4ever
December 19th, 2011, 05:00 PM
If you like who you are you should stay like that tell your friends first and then maybe yur parents,but take time and think about it :)
shadowhunter320
December 23rd, 2011, 10:01 PM
Just tell people, you may have to deal with some crap. But you'll get over it and you'll be much happier:-)
deleteextreme
December 29th, 2011, 03:59 PM
Don't rush it. Don't rush it.
curious_boy_13
December 30th, 2011, 08:20 AM
i dread growing up...so many decisions
vBulletin® v3.8.9, Copyright ©2000-2021, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.