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Dimentio
December 17th, 2011, 11:48 AM
Well there is this guy i like, Not like, But LOVE! :D
But he is really cute and good looking, And i kinda have a Yaoi/Furry Yaoi Fetish, And this makes my situation worse as Anime people are nearly always cute, Smoothed skin and good looking.
And i see a lot of Gay people that are the same, Practically all, But the thing is, I have Acne which is not to bad (Like on my face and top of chest and top of back, Which still is not so bad compared to A LOT of others!), I suffer from so much stress, Anger and depression, I started getting a receding hairline and i am 15 and you cannot see it as much now as i have grown my hair longer, But you can notice it still, I have glasses, My head is bigger then averege and I have odd hairs sprouting from my face sometimes which i shave but it imbarrissing!
And i see these pictures of Anime and stuff or real life couples and think of the guy i like and think, If we did get together, We would never be like them, Because of me, I am ugly and he is nice looking, We won't be a normal couple i will always drag us down, But then i see these pics and normal couples and wish it was us if we got together! But it will never be!
Like i get bullied for my looks so much and feel so self concsious about it that I wear hoodies all the time and i always keep my head down which gives me a back ache, But i know people see my face less, And i must be making myself out like thw worlds ugliest person here but people have said i am not as bad as i make myself out to be and that i am no where near great looking but i am not the worse.
But this bullying and self consciousness has gotten so bad, I do not like going out, I do not like going to family partys, I refuse to be recorded or have my picture taken, I feel like when i am in pictures with my family i just ruin it and i just do not eat, Sleep or drink properly because of all this.
I am genurally depressed and angry, But the boy i like has seen my true side, And that is a side he wants to see more but can't, That is what most people see on the internet too, A happy, Carefree, Loving, Fun, Caring, Loyal, Friendly, Chatty and nice person, But for some reason, The people who bully me ask why i am never like that! Oh i wonder? BECAUSE THEY ARE BULLYING ME SO I CANNOT BE LIKE THAT!
I am just so self conscious of myself now and i hate myself so much that, I have only ever thought bad thoughts before if you know what i am talking about, But i just want to live in the country side and remove myself from everones lifes, One because i would be in a country side which is a dream of mine! Two, No one would have to see me again which to me, Would make everyone happier again!
I know in my head none of this is that bad and that i am not affecting people in this way, I may be stupid but i am clever at times ha ha, But it is just like, I can't live with myself seeing all these good looking people and thinking if i have a good looking boyfriend, Would he wish for me to look that good and would i make him sad for not being like that or ruin what would be a cute moment with my looks?
I just don't know! Sorry this is all depressive and kind of rambling and ranting but, Fot two days now i have been by myself for 6 hours and it looks like it will be more and i just am in a depression stage because of my state from suffering with depression.
I need to get more self confidence! Sometimes i can be a little TOO confident but lately, I am just too under confident.
Doctor Who? No Doctor Obvious :D They bully me about such old things though like stuff that i do not wish to say happened in my past and also my addiction at one point with Facebook, I did do Art Therapy but not going near a counselor again after that, I just got too attached and when she had to go, I was and still am heart broken, Never again, So that is for anyone who wants to sat that idea.

Mirage
December 17th, 2011, 02:08 PM
But for some reason, The people who bully me ask why i am never like that! Oh i wonder? BECAUSE THEY ARE BULLYING ME SO I CANNOT BE LIKE THAT!

This is not okay for them to be doing. I am straight, but I feel your pain. They don't look past what you seem to be on the outside, but I'm sure if they did they would see you were a kind and friendly person. They people on VT have all been in similar situations at one time or another, and that is why we don't think of you as weird. Because we see who you actually are, we see your personality. We don't judge for looks. I suggest seeing a counselor, some schools have them, maybe talk with them?

Some people are just naturally mean, as bad as it may seem, you have to deal with them.

Good luck, and god bless you.
Doctor Obvious