friends pissing me off

[bena3217]

okay my friends really start pissing me off...they always like 'nobody cares about them and they aren't worth anything" thats really starting to piss me off because everytime they update their status that sounds said i jump and ask whats wrong then they say nothing they fine and some of them tell me and i get to make them feel better...and then straight afterwards they say the the next person nobody cares and stuff...it feels like i'm doing all this work to help them for nothing...all my efforts wasted because thet arrogant bitches that dont realise what they have! if they sit alone at break i almost run to them and make sure they okay...but then they chase me away or they tell me...but right after that i see them crying to their best friends saying nobody cares because she had to sit alone the whole break long...but i was there...i dont know what to do anymore..do you think i put to much in helping the hard headed bitches or should i carry on helping them just to feel like im nothing worth in their lives? need help plz

[Eclipsical]

Yeah...it gets annoying. Some people are real drama kings/queens...they want people to ask them for reassurance that people care..

[Eagle63]

i know exactly where you're coming from. in my case, she creates a problem in her head, then rambles on skype about it for an hour or so. When i give her advice, she always says "No! I already tried that!" or "No! That's stupid!" and then keeps talking. And then she asks "Why do you never give me advice? I feel like im talking to a brick wall!"

Oh yeah, well I feel like I'm talking to a fucking CD.

In other words, skipping the rant, dont talk to them for a while. make them see what they're missing. I know in friendship you shouldnt count how many times you give advice or apologize, but if it gets out of control and you feel used, theyre not worth your time.

[chazgp]

sometimes i feel like a few of my friends are very unloyal. one week we will be best friends then they will just gradually drift off to another group of people which they know i hate. then soon after they will come back to me and want to be friends again. it gets really annoying when a friend just starts ignoring you. I have about 10 close friends that are always with me but some one of the closest keeps drifting away. it sucks.

[bena3217]

now all my friends really strting to aviod me!! i dont know what to do anymore!!!! im losing friends by the day :(

[Eagle63]

get new friends who accept you for you and dont take advantage of you. thats what. uve always got friends on VT too bro, as cheesey as that sounds.

[bena3217]

but the thing is i cant go have a drink ith the people on VT...some of my friends real good ones! but just never there when i need them...

[anubisgodofdead]

we'll there your friends i think no matter what you should help them until you can't help them any more it's sort of what a friend is for

[bena3217]

i'm still helping them...but i dont think they listen to me