Girls and Guys???

[lilj231]

Okay ,like when guys see a picture of me they say i'm attractive and stuff,but I feel like guys say that to me more than girls should??Like girls don't say i'm attractive as much??What does this mean??

[italianopalo]

Doesn't mean much in terms of sexual identity, it might means that you might not be as popular among the girls than guys. Potentially your appearance might be more attractive to non-straight guys...

[lilj231]

WOW this site is sooo helpful!!!...not..

[Unsolvedmind]

Doesn't mean much in terms of sexual identity, it might means that you might not be as popular among the girls than guys. Potentially your appearance might be more attractive to non-straight guys...

Agree

[italianopalo]

WOW this site is sooo helpful!!!...not..

Well you haven't divulged enough details e.g. your orientation, who you find attractive et cetera. Maybe your just really self-conscious?

[Bmatlman]

girls would be alot more shy about telling you that then you'd think.

[Syvelocin]

^ Yeah, guys are generally a bit more forward about it. I think I've only said that straight out to about two people who I wasn't in a relationship with at the time. Generally I'd never ever do so unless I really had a thing for them.

[lilj231]

Yea I might just be too self-consicous..

[Kimy]

girls would be alot more shy about telling you that then you'd think.
He makes a valid point, girls don't normally go about openly saying who they like/dislike.

[wattado]

yea the only girls that have ever told me i looked good were ones i went out with. but before that i didnt think that any girl found me attractive. girls ussually only tell their girlfriends who they think is hot

[LuckyLuke]

I have the same exact dilemma dude. I seem to attract much more gay men than straight women. Kinda' sucks.

I think the rest of the people here have it right in saying that girls tend to be a bit more closed in saying who they find physically attractive while guys tend to be blunt and brute about it. Hell, I've told girls who I find attractive that I feel that way and I'm lucky (or unlucky) enough to be friends with most of the girls in my school so I know it's true that they DO talk about guys in a sexual manner (although a bit more romantically than the physical nature that guys tend to talk about girls).

Eh, I don't know why. I think my problem is that I tend to act and dress in a less than the typical masculine way. I like dressing well and I don't mean some Jordans, sagging skinnies, and a tee from Billabong. That's where my problem probably lies.

Perhaps you're the same?