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omgwtfbbq
May 16th, 2007, 07:37 PM
I've been on this forum before like two years ago, but i forgot the login information and stuff -_- It looked different too. But my real question is a problem. I'm a 16 year old guy, and I have a girlfriend. We've been dating for almost a month and we're actually already having sex. She's not a virgin from before me. The first time we had sex it was for an hour straight, she said it was the best sex she ever had, and that i was also the hmm.. biggest she had too. The thing is though, I didn't cum, but she orgasmed a few times. I am worried because I didn't cum. My brother was home, so maybe I was nervous of him hearing us get too loud. (He was across the house but idk where he was)

Honestly I was afraid to cum too early, and I used to masturbate like 3 times a week, so id try to build up my stamina, or whatever. And if I really wanted to i could orgasm in a matter of minutes.

We had sex again the next week... my parents were home -_-... so again i didnt want to get too loud we put on music and made sur not to go over it. We had sex for like half an hour different positions like the first time, and it felt good, and it felt good for her too, but then she said she couldnt take any more cause I was putting it in too deep.

Can some one please help me? I need to be able to ejaculate during intercourse so that my girlfriend doesn't feel offended. It might be because I'm used to the tighter grip of my hand rather than.. you know. But I need to work on it cause I enjoy it but I cant bring myself to cum. Thank you! I think i gave enough information, but I will be checking back for answers.

Maverick
May 16th, 2007, 08:21 PM
You need to do it in an environment where you're comfortable and relaxed. Anyone would be nervous with other people in the house. Find a place where no one else is around and you're comfortable.

Antares
May 16th, 2007, 09:03 PM
also hopefully you are using protection
i dont suggest you ejac without it

if you are then maybe you should get more sensitive condom or like it was said relax and stop worrying

omgwtfbbq
May 16th, 2007, 09:16 PM
okay thanks! yeah i deff dont want to do it like with any body else in the same house. Next time I should be able to i hope

mobile
May 17th, 2007, 05:08 PM
As said above, you need to have sex in a relaxed environment- im sure thats all it was, the fact you were nervous of your folks walking in on you.

An hour though! wow...lol how did you last that long did masturbating a lot help build up stamina?

Kamloops.man
May 18th, 2007, 08:40 AM
Well, Just before you're going to have sex (RELAXED INVIRONMENT) masturbate and then when you're about to ejac then stop and then you're penis will be built up to ejac and then have sex with her.


CONDOM

sunsings
May 18th, 2007, 04:52 PM
stange

Underground_Network
May 18th, 2007, 05:55 PM
Yeah, if I were you I'd follow the advice above, because this thread is going to end up locked. Sadly you're not supposed to bring up sex questions here, its puberty only, and this really has nothing to do with just puberty (non-sex-related).

sfmdraw
May 18th, 2007, 07:53 PM
well, underground just said what i was thinking...and we're probaly right!

Whisper
May 18th, 2007, 08:11 PM
not true it counts as sex ed which is allowed
theres no fighting
no spam
etc...

I'm not going to lock it


now bck on topic please

omgwtfbbq
May 19th, 2007, 12:32 PM
Thanks guys, and yeah masturbating deff built more stamina the more i did it.... we had a more relaxed environment this time...problem solved ^.^

Underground_Network
May 19th, 2007, 04:17 PM
Can the thread be locked now? He got the answer he was looking for lol... But anyway, you might wanna shorten the name of your next thread. Glad to hear the advice helped out (even though none of it was mine). :P

Also: To anyone who posted advice, I didn't say you were wrong, I just thought this was a little too sexual for this forum, but w/e, if a mod says its appropriate, then I'm fine with it. Requests can be denied, I don't care that it wasn't locked. I think you gave good advice, although yes I was a little sarcastic. JUST CLARIFYING :P

Chatman
May 20th, 2007, 09:01 AM
I don't see why it should be locked, but could it be moved to relationships and dating?

Kevi Coz
May 20th, 2007, 02:54 PM
mabe u havent hit that stage af puberty yet?

tommylovers
May 22nd, 2007, 11:04 AM
yer that happened to me for the first time on saturday...ive had sex 5 times now and we were going for about 30 minutes and my gf came twice and no matter how hard i tried to concentrate on cumming i didnt...its frustrating! ahahha its alll about how much stimulisation your penis is getting from the pussy coz u cant really come without it....
sorry if this didnt make sense im drunk and tired goodnight peoples xx