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Cody5545
December 14th, 2011, 10:23 PM
My twin sister Jesse and I have been very close since the day we were born. *Our parent's travel a lot, so we considered ourselves each other's best friend. *But recently, Jesse has done something's that we're kind of odd. *We are both 14.

Over thanksgiving, me and her were swimming in the resort we were staying in's pool. * *Jesse had already gotten out and I followed.

Now the swim trunks I was wearing were new and kind of big. *After I was out, I noticed Jesse was staring at my midsection.

"What?" I asked. *I than looked down and realized that tge top half of my gentiles was exposed. *I quickly adjusted my shorts and sort of blushed. **

"Oh sorry Cody! * I didn't mean to stare!" she apologized. *

"Just forget about it and let's spare ourselves the embarrassment okay?"

And I did until last weekend. * Me and Jesse had started arguing about an answer to an Algebra problem (we do our homework together) and she started to tickle me (yes, I'll admit, I am ticklish. ). And so I started to tickle her back, and it developed into kind of a laughing fight. * But at one point, Jesse kind of touched her hand to my crotch. *And again. *And again. * I didn't tell her about the contact (THAT would be an awkward conversation!).*

Anyway, *I was wondering if anybody has been or is in a similar situation, and what I should tell Jesse if something like this happens again. * I think I want it to stop, *but I still would like to maintain our friendship. *Any ideas? *Thanks.
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BFG9001
December 15th, 2011, 01:28 AM
*Try touching something of Jesse's. *See Jesse's reaction.

botwa
December 15th, 2011, 05:10 AM
just tell her honestly that you want her to stop

Cody5545
December 15th, 2011, 10:48 AM
*Try touching something of Jesse's. *See Jesse's reaction.

Umm, I'm pretty sure I want it to stop, not enchorage it!

just tell her honestly that you want her to stop

How can I do that in a way that won't be weird or make her hate me?

Please do not double post, use the edit button- Fiction

MaliciousBunface
December 15th, 2011, 11:15 AM
Why would she hate you? She is your sister after all. And what makes you think that you are encouraging her to touch your crotch more by feeling her in 'places'? What if she freaked out and was completely disgusted?

botwa
December 15th, 2011, 12:47 PM
How can I do that in a way that won't be weird or make her hate me?

just tell her something like
please be careful next time I don't really feel comfortable when you touch my private parts
if you're friends I'm sure she'll understand you

Fiction
December 15th, 2011, 04:45 PM
If you're uncomfortable then simply tell her. My suspicion is that it isn't delibrate or anything, and as soon as you tell her she'll apologise and be more careful next time. It doesn't have to be a big thing, maybe just mention it in passing next time she does it.

spiderdude
December 15th, 2011, 10:23 PM
i dont think she was tring any thing but u should be able to find out im close with my sister she hasnt tried that figure out wats going on you 2 r twins so u should natrally have a great bond together just ask and if she didnt do it on purpose then laugh it off

Cody5545
December 16th, 2011, 12:19 AM
Okay today something happened again of similar nature. * I was reading The Hunger Games in my room and Jesse sat down next to me, acting like she was interested in the book and reading along with me. * But her hand seemed to creep over to my lap, and kind of pushed on my private area. **

So I said "Jesse, don't touch *me there! *And she kind of blushed and said something like "sorry". * I hoping she'll stop now. * If not, *I don't know how I should handle it.

Cody5545
December 16th, 2011, 12:20 AM
Okay today something happened again of similar nature. * I was reading The Hunger Games in my room and Jesse sat down next to me, acting like she was interested in the book and reading along with me. * But her hand seemed to creep over to my lap, and kind of pushed on my private area. **

So I said "Jesse, don't touch *me there! *And she kind of blushed and said something like "sorry". * I hoping she'll stop now. * If not, *I don't know how I should handle it.