Should I be Worried At All? (Suspicious) [Archive]

Kansas

December 14th, 2011, 01:56 PM

Me and my girlfriend have being going out about a month now, we're very sexually active, we've generally been happy. We saw each other all week-end and we just left today out because we didn't want to overdo our personal space. Today I got home from school she messaged me on Facebook general talk, she asked me what I was doing I told her I was just gonna have a day in for a change, I asked her about what she was doing; instantly she told me she was meeting another lad with her friend and she was just being there for her friend, but it made me suspicious how she was sneaky about it all, she told me she was meeting her friend and just going in to town, I said jokingly "Don't be meeting other lads aha" she replied with "No but that lad my friend has being talking about he MIGHT be meeting us" I know when she's keeping something from me she uses, 'I think' ect and never can tell me directly, so I said "So you actually are" she said "Yeah, but you it's only ____" I said "Alright whatever" because I was annoyed at the time and just wanted to forget about it but she pressed on re-assuring me that "Nothings going on, it's just for ____" that made me suspicious how she brought up cheating although I said nothing about cheating.

I told her "I can't control you I'm not your parents do what you want"
she tried to turn the guilt on to me telling me that I meet other girls like that
but I've never met a girl behind her back that's the thing, I've had the offers and all that but I said 'No'.

So what do you think should I be suspicious at all? And damn I know this sounds really tight but I just bought her 100£ perfume (I had some spare money) and I don't want to not go through Christmas without giving it her so please if you can give me any advice on how to resolve it if you think I should be suspicious please tell me.

Fiction

December 14th, 2011, 02:21 PM

I can see why you'd be suspicious, but ask her about it. She said she's going to meet up with this guy with her friend, for her friend? I don't see that as suspicious. Maybe she's being secretive about it because she's scared of your reaction, rather than because there is something that she needs to hide from you?

I guess a lot of it depends on what type of person she is. I don't know your girlfriend and I can't really make a judgement. I can see why you're suspicious, but I can also see reasons why this would be happening without assuming the worst. I guess just ask her about it and keep an eye out.