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jjmurph
December 13th, 2011, 12:50 PM
Is it bad to masturbate with a friend? I went over a friends house over the summer and it was really hot because they don't have air conditioning so we just locked the door in his room and got naked and kept playing the video game we were playing but then I noticed he started having an erection so I saw it then I started to have one then he noticed I have one too and he just grabbed my penis I was so surprised I didn't know what to do so i grabbed his penis and we started masturbating eachother... hard after about 10 minutes my friend just bent down and started sucking on my penis again I was really surprised so I got caught up in the moment and did it back to him then we started gripping and masturbating each other again for about an hour. I'm straight so I felt really bad and guilty and still do can someone help me? Why did I do this? should I feel guilty?:what::what::what:

Luke.m
December 13th, 2011, 01:00 PM
I think its normal... Im sure it doesnt make a difference who you get it from it feels the same. It depends.... i dont mean to offend but you it could mean your just curious... Dont feel guilty :)

Giles
December 13th, 2011, 02:13 PM
It's not 'bad', some people would see it as wrong but that's not for them to judge really. You probably did it because you were curious about yourself and your friend, you wanted to see what he was like and he probably wanted the same of you - it's nothing to feel particularly guilty about as long as it wasn't a bad experience and you don't regret it. I wouldn't advise that this becomes a regular thing however, can cause a lot of awkwardness.

Xandle
December 13th, 2011, 03:06 PM
This is very normal, and if most straight guys in their teens had the opportunity to do this then they probably would. Regardless of if you're straight gay or bi, you're still going to want to do those things and experiment, it's part of the natural hormones. This shouldn't affect your straight sexuality at all. I'm straight, but I'd consider doing that.

patrick2010
December 13th, 2011, 05:29 PM
dude its very normal ive known alot of straight guys
that have done this. nothing to feel guilty or ashamed about
have fun with it

RHODRI11
December 13th, 2011, 05:39 PM
I haven't masturbated a friend but we've wanked in the same room watching porn ..... Maybe your bi ? Or just curious

senior.2013
December 13th, 2011, 08:15 PM
Like others said: Youre a teen. Its normal. Youre curious about that stuff. No need to feel guilty. If you were both comfortable/OK with it at the time, theres no problem I can see.

legitt
December 13th, 2011, 08:16 PM
Its normal your just trying new things

spoke
December 13th, 2011, 08:29 PM
no reason to feel guilty, just a part of the puberty process imo. i think most everyone is curious to a certain point.

darthreilly
December 13th, 2011, 09:12 PM
yea dude me and my best friend used to play around all the time like that. i did it because i didnt care it was gay or whatever i just wanted to mess around and feel good ha. youve gotta stop worrying so much about how everyones gonna judge you and forreal start caring about yourself and if what youre doing makes you feel good. if feeling good means the word, "gay" attached to it, so freakin what you know?
you only live once man so make the most of it

lniehus55
December 13th, 2011, 10:13 PM
its normal. me and my friend do it all the time

jjmurph
December 13th, 2011, 10:31 PM
well thanks I feel better

Blueturtle
December 14th, 2011, 01:55 PM
As U Said U Were Caught Up In The Moment. As Long As U Are Both Happy And Comfortable Then No Problems :)

Mysterious Skin
December 14th, 2011, 04:06 PM
It's Fine. It was just a bit of fun. the more you worry about it, the worse it is going to seem.

superstarB
December 14th, 2011, 05:14 PM
there's no reason to be guilty you guys are friends and you were experimenting

tomcolly
December 14th, 2011, 06:55 PM
think reilly's got it pretty spot on tbh. go for what u feel is right. if u wanna play around with each other, that's cool. i've done it before with friends and it feels great at the time. Just make sure u really wanna do it before u make it a regular thing.x

swimmer151
December 14th, 2011, 07:10 PM
i do it all the time

Benbomber
December 15th, 2011, 12:53 AM
I am straight as an arrow and i have never dome anything like that but i have masturbated with other guys and its fine it feels great and i just pretend its a hot girl. We always do it under covers and never touch eachother but we are sitting so close talking and watching porn that it is like we are touching eachother.

BoarderJAK93
December 15th, 2011, 09:46 PM
pretty normal.. just curious and experimented

Fordmustangman
December 26th, 2011, 02:06 AM
yea dude me and my best friend used to play around all the time like that. i did it because i didnt care it was gay or whatever i just wanted to mess around and feel good ha. youve gotta stop worrying so much about how everyones gonna judge you and forreal start caring about yourself and if what youre doing makes you feel good. if feeling good means the word, "gay" attached to it, so freakin what you know?
you only live once man so make the most of it

Nicely put reilly! And I also agree with tomcolly. ... I never done this .. I'm a late bloomer with this stuff... plus where I'm from you are harshly judged and become an outcast to them and that means hardly any friends and what not...

deleteextreme
December 26th, 2011, 02:18 AM
don't worry :) perfectly normal

SkyTaylor
December 26th, 2011, 04:43 AM
You needn't feel bad. when you liked it, it is ok and when you think I wanna do this again then do it again. but when you feel bad and you don't like it then you must stop

theawesomeone
December 26th, 2011, 07:12 AM
my neighbor always used to give me head with his brother while watching porn, it was pretty nice

The realist
December 28th, 2011, 02:32 PM
I love masturbating wit friends

russsh
December 28th, 2011, 05:52 PM
normal and fun

gotaquestion
December 28th, 2011, 06:03 PM
Its normal. Im strait and even I found that suprisingly arousing.

bike
December 28th, 2011, 06:08 PM
its normall people try every thing life dusnt mean your gay

deleteextreme
December 28th, 2011, 06:24 PM
Yes it is normal