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bdrew22
December 12th, 2011, 04:17 PM
So my gf doesn't wanna have sex yet.... Which is ok cuz I don't wanna pressure her... We do oral at times and hj's.... But mainly she likes to dry hump.... Usually we get down to underwear n make out/hump ..... Thing is I am soooo sick of cummin n my boxers.... It's messy..... N e one else have this problem..... Guys?.. Girls?... N e solutions please!

HeartsFear
December 12th, 2011, 04:29 PM
You should not ask here, but tell her. Communication is the only way to get a long lasting relationship

melia_allen
December 12th, 2011, 04:33 PM
I am just like your girl. But HeartsFear is correct. It is not pressuring her if you two talk about it. It will help stregthen the relationship. I hope it goes well for you two.

bdrew22
December 12th, 2011, 04:50 PM
Lol ask her what!?!? It's just not that easy... She's very shy and I don't wanna embarrass her.... I know it sounds dumb... I'm not looking to get her to have sex. Tho I'd like too... I just wanna not jizz in my short but she loooooves dry humping... It actually gets her off Hahahaha sounds so dumb!

HeartsFear
December 12th, 2011, 05:04 PM
You should tell her, that the only disturbing thing is cumming into your pants.

So you could just do the next step and put off your boxers while you are performing. Maybe you can also put some tissue into your boxers, be creative :D

Ask her, if she would mind seeing you naked if it's fine with you. And tell her that you do not expect her doing also clothe-off

But talking about it is important.

SwimRunSleep
December 12th, 2011, 05:18 PM
I HATE this, my ex wanted to do this all the time. I was about to go crazy.

bdrew22
December 12th, 2011, 05:22 PM
I HATE this, my ex wanted to do this all the time. I was about to go crazy.

What did you do about it?,?!?!

SwimRunSleep
December 12th, 2011, 05:54 PM
What did you do about it?,?!?!

Well, it kind of went down hill because she was the worst girlfriend ever. My guess is she cheated on me. I dumped her xD sorry this doesn't help.

JessicaVendetta
December 12th, 2011, 06:11 PM
could you not try wearing a condom so when you cum it doesnt go everywhere?

bdrew22
December 12th, 2011, 07:26 PM
could you not try wearing a condom so when you cum it doesnt go everywhere?

Great idea!!!! Can't beieve I never thought about this

Then again I'm still dry humpin.... And that's just no fun! Lol

----Please don't double post!----

jjmurph
December 13th, 2011, 02:26 PM
just ask her if you can do it naked say she doesn't have to but that you want to be naked so then the cum isn't in your boxers and she'll probably eventually want to do it

melia_allen
December 13th, 2011, 03:24 PM
but then it will get on her and she may not like thet

bdrew22
December 13th, 2011, 04:10 PM
but then it will get on her and she may not like thet

Yeah.... I can tell ur alot like her.... Cuz she won't like that

anonymous53
December 13th, 2011, 04:20 PM
How about you speak to her about this? Although from my opinion she kind of deserves better than a guy like you :) Not trying to start a flame war.

bdrew22
December 13th, 2011, 04:27 PM
Rude

melia_allen
December 13th, 2011, 04:32 PM
that is mean and i hope that that it is not a bad thing that i am like her...

bdrew22
December 13th, 2011, 04:38 PM
that is mean and i hope that that it is not a bad thing that i am like her...

No no..... Not at all.... U have some solid advice on this because I think u think like her... So I appreciate all ur suggestions

melia_allen
December 14th, 2011, 09:10 AM
:) well glad i can be of help

CoolGuyXD
December 14th, 2011, 10:53 AM
I do the same exact thing with my gf. I usually do alot more to her then she does to me. I don't pressure her at all. I will do oral on her every time if we were alone. I have only gotten oral like 3 times and that sucks but its okay. Im always ontop of her kissing and humping her because she feels my penis thro our pants very well and I make her orgasm quiet a few times. Some times Ill end up finishing in my boxers when I get to excited and its to late to stop.

MaliciousBunface
December 14th, 2011, 11:38 AM
I have only gotten oral like 3 times and that sucks...

Lol. Just lol.

Have you talked to her about it yet? You might have to stick with dry humping for a while, it's better than nothing?

melia_allen
December 14th, 2011, 11:54 AM
bdrew22, why don't you just talk to her about it? I mean she may be feeling the same way. I could be wrong but if it is awkward for you, maybe she would like to know that it does, this way she can see it from your point of veiw. this way you guys can work it out and it will help the situation...

CoolGuyXD
December 14th, 2011, 12:34 PM
Lol. Just lol.

Have you talked to her about it yet? You might have to stick with dry humping for a while, it's better than nothing?

It has been a while. We have been dating for over a year. But I don't need that stuff to love her. She likes that about me.

bdrew22
December 14th, 2011, 12:34 PM
I did last. Night.... So thanks for the help gang

MaliciousBunface
December 14th, 2011, 12:45 PM
It has been a while. We have been dating for over a year. But I don't need that stuff to love her. She likes that about me.

I was gonna mention that, but oh well. Good for you :3

melia_allen
December 14th, 2011, 02:35 PM
how did that go for you bdrew22?

bud2.0
December 14th, 2011, 03:28 PM
you could also put a condom on before you get with her and find a way to keep it on so when you get hard you have a place to cum

bdrew22
December 14th, 2011, 03:53 PM
how did that go for you bdrew22?

Went good... We talked about some different ways we are going to try n such.... I'm pretty excited bout um... I don't think I can say um on here buying wanna know u can message melt email me....

melia_allen
December 15th, 2011, 10:20 AM
Went good... We talked about some different ways we are going to try n such.... I'm pretty excited bout um... I don't think I can say um on here buying wanna know u can message melt email me....

I am sorry i can't yet. if you text though (phone number removed). strictly professional. or wou can e-mail me at (email removed). That way we can talk about this in a more private manner.

Do not post contact info - ImCoolBeans

bdrew22
December 16th, 2011, 04:45 PM
I emailed ya