We aren't living in the same world

[Chester]

My girlfriend(used to be my classmate until she transferred) and I are undergoing a distance relationship for some time now. And we don't make use any means of communication other than cellphones (sms and A call so far). We have been "going out" -BUT she can't really go "outside and hang out around" so our relationship is pretty much the same now. I couldn't meet her face to face because of some complex reasons.That was all. To be honest I don't see much difference now that we're "going out". Rather, I feel lonely. It hurts so much. I don't know how and what she's doing over there and whether she actually still like me or not anymore. I started to lose confidence in our relationship, we are going nowhere I said to myself everyday.

I know I should talk about this issue straight to her. The problem is, we've never been so open about our situation.. So I'm trying to avoid all topics that may trigger awkward moments.Any suggestions?

[Core]

I'm currently in a similar-ish situation, i sugest trying to find new ways of comunicateing, but as 4 weather to continue going out with her, or to move on, talk openly, if ur relationship is truly for real then u will be able to find a way.

[Mara-chan]

i've been in a similar relationship....kinda still am....like Core said....find another way of talking, like skype or something...it really helps..and be open with your feelings....not saying something about it could just make this worse....just talk....even if it seems awkward keep talking about it....it rly works....you can find out a lot from talking....trust me....hope that helped! ^.^