College? HELP?

[boss15]

Okay well i'm going to college soon (17 male) and i'm sharing a room with two other guys im straight but a little self conscious about being naked , my question is when you were in college how often were you seen naked and how often did you see another guy naked? i don't mind being seen naked but i just wanna know. what were your showers like ? what about jacking off did you do it , do you know if your roommate did it if so when? did you guys watch porn?

[rpd453]

Ha, awesome question. I sorta worried about this too, but this was my experience:

Not once have I ever seen a dude naked. Not once. My freshman year I shared a bathroom with about 25 other guys, a LOT of them being the really macho type. Now, they would walk around in their underwear alot, but they would always have towels on in the bathroom. Although, I did see a guys ass when he got out of the shower, and i couldnt help but look :)

I jacked off ALOT. When I was alone especially, or while my roomates were asleep (one of them admited to me when he was drunk that he knew I did it because he could feel the bunk shaking haha, but he was totally cool with it). I never caught my roomates doing it tho. We never watched porn together in a sexual way. Nudity didnt make us uncomfortable tho.

Trust me, when you live with guys that closely, you may develop a bond where you REALLY dont care about sexual things. You are better off ecause your straight. I had the problem of NOT being straight, so it always made me feel a little bit more awkward than everyone else, that I couldnt talk about liking girls like they did.

It really all depends on where you go to school, what the dorming situation is, and what your roomates are like, but for the most part, everyone is usually just as weirded out by nakedness.

Let me know if you have anymore questions, especially about college. Im ur expert!

[twotall]

ok the way we have it its apartments and i have my own room and i share a shower now i dont get seen naked but i dont care it i do but me and my room mates are ok with each other so we walk around our boxers. but they dont know im bi i think they wont do it no more

[Kevin11]

i'm 18 right now and i accidentally forgot my towel so i was seen naked.. worse experience ever. Make sure you always have a towel and make sure no one steals it because i was bullied a lot and yea....

[neurology76]

I share a room with two other guys, and we don't hang out in the room in anything less than shorts and a t-shirt, but we all change in the room (down to our boxers but no more).

There are plenty of people in the hall that walk to the bathroom wearing just a towel or shorts. In the actual bathroom itself, the showers are in a separate area. There are individual shower stalls so people take off their clothes in the main shower area and then get in a stall.

As for jacking off, I haven't caught any of my roommates yet... I actually don't know when/where they do. None of us have ever watched porn together, though I did hear about a couple of guys down the hall who did. Personally, I usually try to save it for when I know they won't be around, or if I really need to jack off I'll just go to the bathroom. Sometimes I jack off in bed before I go to sleep but I have the top bunk so it's hard to do without being obvious.

[Giles]

I notice that you're in the US so this doesn't really apply, but in the UK the level of exposure and sexual activity that goes on in Colleges and Universities is ridiculously blown out of proportion, I have a few friends that went to both college and then onto university that said similar things to those that posted before me - that they rarely, if ever, saw any of their roommates or guys living near them naked to any extent more than underwear. These particular friends I don't know well enough to discuss masturbation or actual sex but I get the impression that there isn't much of it going on openly or in public.