am i gay?

[ldrish]

hello :)

i'm a 16 year old boy and i've been sexually attracted to boys for a few years now. i've never kissed anyone and i've never done anything sexual.

i'm emotionally attracted to girls though... not boys. i want to have relationships with girls but i'm not sexually attracted to them. their bodies just don't turn me on at all. but when i see a really attractive girl, i'll be like 'argh, she's so hot'. there's so many hot celebs that i'm kinda attracted to (but not sexually) eg Lindsay Lohan, Lana Del Rey, Lady Gaga, Amy Childs, etc...
like earlier today i saw lindsay lohan's nude playboy pics and i found it so hot... but i didn't get turned on.
but when girls touch me and act sexual with me, i get really turned on... even when they sit on my knee and stuff and then i'll start thinking about doing sexual things with the girl. i'm so confused.

any ideas? :what:

thank you

[Jupiter]

The way I see it, I think you are only curious. It doesnt say your age... or your gender.. So, I'm really taking a stab in the dark. You are (hopefully) a teen. Just a stage, or maybe you are bi, but.. for now all you can do is find out!

[ldrish]

The way I see it, I think you are only curious. It doesnt say your age... or your gender.. So, I'm really taking a stab in the dark. You are (hopefully) a teen. Just a stage, or maybe you are bi, but.. for now all you can do is find out!

i said in the post that i'm 16 and male haha ;)
does this make a difference?

[SamB]

We are not able to tell you your sexuality, it is something that you need to find out for yourself, so I would suggest just give it time. But like Eric said it sounds like you are just curious, you are only 16 you are still going through puberty so hormones are still raging. Just give it time is all I would say.

[Camazot]

well i dont think you are gay

[ExhibitG]

i'm pretty much the same way.
also, do you want to do sexual things with guys? or are you just attracted to them?

[LuckyLuke]

You can't be gay if you're not emotionally attracted to the same gender. That's one of the "requirements"

I don't watch gay porn but I did at some point and it proved to be a phase and it CAN be the same for you. Just ride it out, do what pleases you. To quote the Rocky Horror Picture show, "give yourself over to absolute pleasure". Do what you enjoy and you'll see your true self bloom eventually.

P.S. I've just seen the Lindsay Lohan spread today too and, holy damn, she proved me wrong. I thought the drugs had gotten to her but she's hot!

[TheUnknown12345]

Wow, I feel like this is the story of my life. lol I am the same way, I feel sexually attracted to guys, but not really to girls, but I am emotionally attracted to girls. It is so confusing. I know I am bi, but it's hard when people ask me, "what sex do you like more?" and I always tell them that I seem to be more physically(sexually) attracted to guys, I am more emotionally attracted to girls. Who knows though? I might be a phase? Hopefully you'll figure it out soon, because you're the only one who can tell you what you are. :D

[ldrish]

Sorry for the late reply, i've had problems with my laptop!

Thanks for all the replies guys, much appreciated!

We are not able to tell you your sexuality, it is something that you need to find out for yourself, so I would suggest just give it time. But like Eric said it sounds like you are just curious, you are only 16 you are still going through puberty so hormones are still raging. Just give it time is all I would say.

Thank you very much. Yeah, time will tell i suppose! :p

You can't be gay if you're not emotionally attracted to the same gender. That's one of the "requirements"

I don't watch gay porn but I did at some point and it proved to be a phase and it CAN be the same for you. Just ride it out, do what pleases you. To quote the Rocky Horror Picture show, "give yourself over to absolute pleasure". Do what you enjoy and you'll see your true self bloom eventually.

P.S. I've just seen the Lindsay Lohan spread today too and, holy damn, she proved me wrong. I thought the drugs had gotten to her but she's hot!

Thanks a lot! :D yeah hopefully this is just a phase :D

hahaha yeah she is incredibly hot! that's what annoys me, i want to be sexually attracted to these hot girls!! :( haha

Wow, I feel like this is the story of my life. lol I am the same way, I feel sexually attracted to guys, but not really to girls, but I am emotionally attracted to girls. It is so confusing. I know I am bi, but it's hard when people ask me, "what sex do you like more?" and I always tell them that I seem to be more physically(sexually) attracted to guys, I am more emotionally attracted to girls. Who knows though? I might be a phase? Hopefully you'll figure it out soon, because you're the only one who can tell you what you are. :D

omg i'm glad i'm not the only one!
i might be bi then? i'd quite happily be bi! i just don't want to be gay... don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with gay people... it's just that i want to be in relationships with girls and stuff haha

thanks again guys :)

[deleteextreme]

No you're probably just curious.

[curious_boy_13]

2 young to limit uself...