My girlfriend :L

[goodfella2]

So basically, i've been going out with this girl for about 4 and half months now and im a little bit confused. We're both inlove (i think) she writes me all these notes saying how much she loves me and whenever i meet up with her friends at parties and stuff they always say she talks about me all the time and says she loves me. She always wants to spend time with me in her free time ( i think) we meet up usually every saturday but she gets grounded loads (apperently), like i say we should split up for an hour to go do some seperate shopping and shes says no because she dosent want to be away from me for an hour. She gets really jealous over me, like i was texting some girl and she was like "tell her to piss off" and like she dosent really like it when i talk to her friends but i dont really mind. I dont really show i love her as much as she does lol but i think she knows. But heres where im confused, basically one day i was stalking her facebook profile ( i know its creepy but it was a one off and who cares lol) and she said on one to another boy that she would go out with him like a month into our relationship. She still spoke to him after that until i said to her wtf? and she deleted and blocked him. and recently she started being really friendly with this guy from my school who's party i went to, the only reason she added him on facebook was to message him and tell him to make sure i dont cheat on her at his party, but then they started chatting and being really friendly and calling eachothers homephones (my friend said that she kept telling him to call her but i dunno?) and arranging to see twilight together. She told him that he was a really good friend and wanted to give him a hug when they met up. I basically then said wtf? again and like said "do you even like me anymore?" over the phone and she started crying and having a panic attack over the phone so i didnt dump her. We've spoken this week and she says shes definatel still inlove with me. But today my friend ( a different one) told me that she was flirting with him like 3 and a half months into our relationship. Im really confused, why does she keep doing these sort of things, like adding just like every single one of my friends and starts talking to them when she dosent even know them, when she gets like angrily jealous over me talking to just one of her friends when i was at a party at a friends house? Does she actually love me or is she just lying. I've had girlfriends before but i really like this girl and im really getting confused as to whether i should stay with her or just dump her? Any advice?

Sorry for the long message :) thanks :)

[LuckyLuke]

She sounds as though she's insecure and this could be a reason for doing what she does.

Whether or not you stay with her is your choice, is it worth this stress?

[Gordo]

Dump her. WAAAAY too much drama coming your way. She's got control issues, insecure, basically, she's wacked. Break it off. Clearly you're introspective, so you'll find another.

jk: start with her fb friends.

[Kaius]

Have you spoken to her to find out if theres an underlying cause for her possessive and jealous behaviour? She may have been cheated on or messed around in the past and this might be her way of saying that she really doesn't want to lose you but her behaviour around other guys is kind of dismissing that to be honest. As i said first you need to talk to her straight out, if you dont get her side of the story then lines are going to get tangled and Chinese whispers are going to make the whole thing 10x worse.

[Music Lover]

Yes you should definitely talk to her and get to know reasons for her acting like that. Seriously, I was in a relationship where we didn't talk much, although that is probably the primary way of building a relationship. Well it didn't end very well......
But, as I was saying: Talking is important. Talk about your feelings, worries, insecurities etc. You want to also try to do the talking naturally and not force the talk too much. But definitely talk to her about how her words and actions contradict and try to find out why it happens.
Also, if you're up for it, you can also pray for your relationship. God is good and will answer you if you pray him :)

[hypebeastx215]

Sounds to me like she's insecure. You should talk to her at first but if she keeps it up you might wanna dump herr. She's doing all the things she doesn't want you to do and it doesn't seem fair.