Coming out and

[beebs]

Im bi, ive only come out to two also bi friends. And they both get "bullied" about it. I say "bullied" because there both real confident and couldnt care less what people say about them. I dont want to come out because i dont want to be bullied again as im not as confident as them.

This isnt a oh im scared that people wont accept me.
Its im scared im going to be bullied even more.
And its a very real thing to be scared of, because these bullies are violent.

[Giles]

If you feel that you aren't ready to come out or that you won't be safe when you do then you need to decide what is more important. Being honest to your peers or your own safety. Shouldn't be any choice, really.

[bena3217]

if you dont feel comfortable to say anything then dont! its your right to say nothing! some guys are real agressive to bi guy! i would know...im in one of these schools...im not bi and im not a bully anymore! dont tell them if you know you are going to get hurt! its not worth it! rather say nothing than everytime you step in the shower get thrown my shampoo bottels.. but its your choice! just stay safe

[bena3217]

i know your a girl but its the same point im trying to make