Being a Bi male..? i have questions...:/

[Dustin3]

to me... i just dont see myself being bi - that is only half of me wanting that though... the other half wants to be.. im so confused, and i just need anyone to answer me... if u can please give me all the information you can... please, im desperate...:confused:

[Sage]

Introductions :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Sosaku]

can you give me a more definite question?

[thecanjump]

Maybe you're just having crazy hormones going on? If you don't feel attractive in both emotional and physical attraction to both sexes you might not be bi but I don't know you or even have a lot of information about your situation.

[Giles]

If you don't know, then you don't know yet. Don't feel pressured into assigning yourself a sexuality - be whoever you are now and it should hopefully become clearer as you get older what your preferences are.

[Starlight Blaze]

I think I know what you mean. Like part of me loves being gay, but the other part wants to be straight and go to the LDS church and "live a normal life". It'll work out that one part sort of takes over, and that's what you become. You might not know which for a while. It took me a loooong time. But now I know and accept that I'm gay, and I love it. It just needs time to work out. As annoying as that is :/. And you might end up not being bi, who knows? Only time can tell.

[TheUnknown12345]

You shouldn't feel pressured to come out as bi if you are not 100% sure. Give yourself time to think whether you are both physically and emotionally attracted to both sexes. It could also be because maybe as a child growing up your family and/or friends always saw any type of homosexuality as bad, you started to acquisition it as you being bi as bad. I knew I saw it like that when I came out as bi, my family would talk about how gays should not have the right to get married and such, and how they would even look at my gay uncle as disgusting. :l So I would believe that I couldn't be bi because it was bad :l But I overcame that and came out, after coming out to my family, they seem a little more accepting, but it's like the "don't ask, don't tell" law among my family, which we don't ask about my sexuality or talk about it. lol

[Hermes]

If you are happy that you are being honest with yourself about your orientation that is the most important thing. Other than that if you enter into a relationship with someone of the same sex people will draw their own conclusions and you may want to preempt that. If you enter into a relationship with someone of the opposite sex and while you are single it is up to you who you tell what.

[Hajara22]

time will tell. just never lie to yourself when you figure it out. it just makes things harder to deal with later.

[twotall]

your going to have to let your self find out no one can tell you what you want but just let time go and you well find out

[lniehus55]

i think you are curious

[meezyrmcrs4ever]

you are prbbly Bi-Curious let time go by and think about it,believe me it works ;p

[TheMightyBruce]

I'm in the same boat you are...I still don't get the difference between being curious and bi...

[willy93]

alfred kinsey, who pioneered sexual health research, believed that 50% of the population is bisexual, with 25% being straight and the other 25% being gay, so i think it is completely normal to be attracted to both males and females, especially during puberty with hormones going crazy, hope this helps =)

[pridepancakes21]

As a gay teenager, I can totally relate to what you are going through. Now the part that sucks about being Bisexual or gay is the stuff you have to figure out yourself. Now, when I noticed I had feelings for guys I avoided it like the plague, I wanted nothing to do with it. Then as time goes on I was able to think about it and consider "Maybe this is just who I am and I should stop running from it". Now if you are running please stop, turn around and continue a life as a bisexual male. Also, you may just be bi-curious which is totally normal. By that I mean don't go running around the block with a Gay pride flag just yet. Just sit with the idea that you like both dude and chicks, but don't stress your self out. This is something that only you can do, no one will be able to do it for you to make it easy. I hope this helps!