Why does he do this?

[JessicaVendetta]

I'm not worried about it at all but when I post things about how great my boyfriend is or that I love him (which actually isn't that often) He asks me to change it because it's "lame". I don't see how it's lame, I don't know why he gets like that is it maybe because he is being modest or embarrassed by it? I just kind of want to understand...

[MaliciousBunface]

Have you tried asking him why? Maybe he actually thinks that it is lame, but the chances of that aren't very big in my opinion.

[botwa]

some guys just don't like to show off their relationships and it's possible to understand.

[Solvez18]

well i wouldnt like it if someone talked about it if our relationship only just begun. but that's my opinion.

[Anselmo]

He is being embarrassed by it. Between me and my friends, when someone is on a relationship we use all we can to make fun of him ( we are NOT bullying), i don't know if that happens with him, but this might be a reason

[Giles]

He is probably embarrassed by your overt show of affection towards him. A lot of guys are really bad at showing and accepting others emotions, it sounds like he's just embarrassed that you're showing so much to him and he can't handle it.

[JessicaVendetta]

he isn't a teenager

and it's been 10 months we were friends with benefits and 4 months we were dating...

we also don't know each others friends since it's an ldr

[Ambrosia]

he isn't a teenager

You are a teenager, so maybe he doesn't want people really knowing that he's in a relationship with one.

Or perhaps he thinks it's completely silly to post things like that on Facebook, Twitter, or whatever you use (because it is). Posting your every thought, every move, or spamming walls with how much you love your guy can become very nerve racking for others, and even him, because it's embarrassing. I've dealt with plenty of girls who post on Facebook how amazing their guys are, and they end up in fights with them because the guys get hell from their friends about it.

[Gordo]

You are a teenager, so maybe he doesn't want people really knowing that he's in a relationship with one.

Or perhaps he thinks it's completely silly to post things like that on Facebook, Twitter, or whatever you use (because it is). Posting your every thought, every move, or spamming walls with how much you love your guy can become very nerve racking for others, and even him, because it's embarrassing. I've dealt with plenty of girls who post on Facebook how amazing their guys are, and they end up in fights with them because the guys get hell from their friends about it.

However, that's more his problem than hers. If he didn't care about what they said, she'd be all set. Instead, he can't take the jokes and let's face it, some of the guys teasing him have never had a relationship. So if it were me, I'd tell them as much or just reply with a "whatever" whenever they start up. Clearly he reacts, so they keep doing it.

[Eggbuduf]

Well hes a douchè.

[JessicaVendetta]

However, that's more his problem than hers. If he didn't care what they said, she'd be all set. Instead, he can't take the jokes and let's face it some of the guys teasing him have never had a relationship. So if it were me, I'd tell them as much or just reply with a "whatever" whenever they start up. Clearly he reacts, so they keep doing it.

Firstly I don't post shit like that on facebook. I quite despise most teenagers (obviously why I'm not dating one) I don't post anything about him of that nature ever really except this one time. I posted it on msn which a quite private because I don't have his friends on mine and he doesn't my friends on his.

I know he's told me that he isn't a very emotional guy by I don't understand why it's a big deal. Not telling or showing affection or hiding it because of what others think is what's really childish. So no to the person who said it was childish. It is not.