Dilemma?

[Gschmidt247]

There is a girl who I really like and I'm not sure if she likes me back for example the other day she hugged me for like a minute and said "You are really comfortable to lean on." and then she walked away. But then sometimes she doesn't seem that interested in me. I am kind of confused. I am afraid if I ask her out and she says no it will make things really awkward and uncomfortable.

[matt257]

Well no one can say whether she likes you or not, but i would say there is a good chance that she does. If i were you i would leave it for a few days and she how she acts, if she carrys on hugging you, ask her. If you need any more advice PM me :-) Good luck

[Slytherin_Prince]

Well, when a girl says that I'm comfortable to lean on, I find it to be more of a notion of friendship, not necessarily any more.
But then, most girls I know already know that I'm homosexual, so I'm not really a reliable source here.
I think your best bet is to be her friend, and see if anything evolves from that.
Don't rush into anything, just let things devellop casually.

Most sincerely,
Robert.

[Gschmidt247]

Thanks for answering, I have been WAY over thinking this, I was thinking about her ALL day.

[Njathind]

Gotta love girls with their mixed signals ;)

One word of advice though, do not go around asking her friends if she likes you as in my experience they lie and say yes just to keep you happy. It could be nothing and she is just comfortable with you or maybe she does have feelings for you. Best advice I can give is see if she wants to do things with you, just the two of you. Maybe have her oveder yours for the day, watching films or something. Maybe go to the cinema, just test the water untill you know one way or the other.

[Gordo]

nuh uhh. tell he hey, we gotta hook up and see if we got chemistry. If there isn't any chemistry, we can save a ton of time and go straight to the friend zone. If there is, it could be friends with benefits (very popular here) or something more. I kid you, but I have said that and it was a fun casual kinda thing for a semester.