Um IDK what to do?

[Can'tHelpIt]

Ok, so there is this girl(Z) who "I'm the father of her child" it's a joke I didn't get anyone pregnant but she came out and told me that's she is bi. My other friend(S) told me that since Z told me she's bi, I should tell Z I'm gay but I don't really want to but I mean should I? I really didn't want to tell anyone besides my close friends until like high school but since Z shared a secret with me that big, does this make us close friends?

[spw184]

MY ADVICE: DONT TELL HER!!!
Why? Because for a girl to be bi isnt that big of a deal. There is a gay double standard that if a guy is gay, its nasty, but if a girl is gay, its ok.

Is it fair? nope.
Is it real? You bet your sweet *** it is.

[KICKASSKID]

Yeah i agree with the poster above 100%.

[Sosaku]

yeah, don't, unless you feel safe doing it. but there is definately a double standard...

[Giles]

Her choosing to trust you doesn't require you to trust her, so unless you do for other reasons I wouldn't bother.

[Can'tHelpIt]

ok :P

[beebs]

Coming out as gay or bi, or telling people is diffrent for boys and girls. People tend not to
Make a big deal out of girls, but guys seem to have it harder.

Just telling it how it is:)

[Can'tHelpIt]

Yeah...

[Rdsxbaseballfan]

yeah its different for both genders but many girls like to hang with gay guys. i know this because it seems like all the gay guys in my school are the ones getting all the ladies lol. but depending on the trust you have with her should be whether or not you tell her