Heisen8erg
December 5th, 2011, 11:42 PM
Okay, well theres a huge story behind this so ill type it all out for you guys..
One of my friends was dating a girl, who i found really cute, but i would never make a move with her because she was dating my friend. After they broke up (On wednesday) My friend, who was dating her was talking to me told me we would make a good couple and i should go out with her. Knowing it was cool with him i kinda had a small crush on her before he said that, but once again i never did anything because she was dating my friend. So i started talking to her, and she was so depressed because of the breakup, and i was supporting her. After afew days i told her about how i felt, and she said she kinda felt the same way, so we began to talk about it and we were gonna get to know eachother some more and i was planning on asking her out. I knew she still had feelings for my other friend, but i was fine with that, because i was helping her move on. So one day i brought him up, and she said she wanted to choose me because she can trust me more then him, and that she wont have to worry about me smelling like smoke or going to jail.. (He smokes and tends to get in lots of trouble) So she kept telling me how much she was really starting to like me, and she really wanted to be with me and nobody else. So today, she had a random breakdown and suddenly didnt care about me at all, and wanted him back. They talked, and he explained how he moved on and she needed to do the same. (Like i said before, he wanted us to get together) So now, im talking to her and trying to explain how i still have these huge feelings for her, but shes telling me how shes having so much trouble getting over him..
So im pretty much stuck here with a girl who made me fall for her so hard, and then completely left me into nothing, i want to get over with her, because i know i dont deserve to be going through this, but i just cant, shes always in my head and im so sad that this happened..
So im just asking, how can i help her move on? Because she said she still has small feelings for me, but she just cant get over him, because they went out before. And she exaplained how if she gets over him there should be nothing in the way of us dating..
Please help me with this, i cant stand the stress, and im losing sleep over this girl..
One of my friends was dating a girl, who i found really cute, but i would never make a move with her because she was dating my friend. After they broke up (On wednesday) My friend, who was dating her was talking to me told me we would make a good couple and i should go out with her. Knowing it was cool with him i kinda had a small crush on her before he said that, but once again i never did anything because she was dating my friend. So i started talking to her, and she was so depressed because of the breakup, and i was supporting her. After afew days i told her about how i felt, and she said she kinda felt the same way, so we began to talk about it and we were gonna get to know eachother some more and i was planning on asking her out. I knew she still had feelings for my other friend, but i was fine with that, because i was helping her move on. So one day i brought him up, and she said she wanted to choose me because she can trust me more then him, and that she wont have to worry about me smelling like smoke or going to jail.. (He smokes and tends to get in lots of trouble) So she kept telling me how much she was really starting to like me, and she really wanted to be with me and nobody else. So today, she had a random breakdown and suddenly didnt care about me at all, and wanted him back. They talked, and he explained how he moved on and she needed to do the same. (Like i said before, he wanted us to get together) So now, im talking to her and trying to explain how i still have these huge feelings for her, but shes telling me how shes having so much trouble getting over him..
So im pretty much stuck here with a girl who made me fall for her so hard, and then completely left me into nothing, i want to get over with her, because i know i dont deserve to be going through this, but i just cant, shes always in my head and im so sad that this happened..
So im just asking, how can i help her move on? Because she said she still has small feelings for me, but she just cant get over him, because they went out before. And she exaplained how if she gets over him there should be nothing in the way of us dating..
Please help me with this, i cant stand the stress, and im losing sleep over this girl..