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And.rew
December 5th, 2011, 10:26 AM
Not sure if this is the right section but...
I honestly get bullied every day at school, and I am so anxious and scared to go to school now I can hardly sleep at night and I feel sick alot. I get teased for everying, called gay/fag (even though Im str8), having red hair, not being that good at sports. someone is always teasing me about something. am i just that big of a loser? i wish i could change schools but my parents just want me to suck it up. what am i supposed to do?

DarkNick
December 5th, 2011, 01:18 PM
If there are people who still love you out there then no you're not a loser.
Bad ppl will always exist in our lives (Unfortunately, or not). Have a break and let yourself to get filled with good emotions. After that I think that you will start to change your point of view. That's what happened to me at least... :)

LittleMiss
December 5th, 2011, 06:06 PM
Best thing to do is just to brush it off. May sound alot harder than it is but if you dont react to things they say. If you seem disinterested, etc then they usually get the hint and dont bother anymore. Most of the time when someone has a go at someone else; its because of their own insecurities and their failure to express it.. So they take it out on other people.

Dont let it get to you. Who cares? They arent really gonna be in your life apart from school, so who cares what they think?

A quote I like (and ive posted it somewhere else in this forum) is;

"You can please some of the people some of the time, but you cant please all of the people all of the time."

So basically- theres probably always gonna be someone out there finding fault, but dont let it get to you. Be who you want to be and if they dont like it- then it is their own problem and you shouldnt worry about it..

but yes.. Try and take more time to yourself in the afternoons and do things you enjoy. Dont dwell on it and let yourself relax and have fun. Smile every now and then. Look up silly videos. :D I look up ones to do with cats.. Makes me happy and usually cheers me up, but yeah- dont worry about it<3