Mom vs. Grandma, and everything in between

[Mara-chan]

something that i never thought would happen....just happened....my girlfriend and i have been together for over a year now.....and now we decided to tell her mother about us....we thought that it would be easy with her being all excepting and what not....well....it failed....
my girlfriend started to tell her mother about me to like...prep her....and since i couldnt be there in person, we used skype....so...she lead her mother into the room and she looked right at me on the screen....looked at her daughter...and said "not now" and left the room....she either meant that she didnt want to deal with it now.....or that she doesnt want us together....i hope its the 1st one....because i dont know what i would do without her....
i cant tell my grandmother....because i will get kicked out of the house....
i just want everything to be ok....but....i feel like i'm losing everything and falling back into that black void of depression again....and i really dont want to start those bad habits again....
i dont know what to do nemore....*curls up and cries*


sorry for my spelling and stuff....and if this needs 2 be moved.....just tell me or whatever.....

[Camazot]

im so sorry i hope everything works out

[Mara-chan]

thanks......i hope so 2......i just....i havent stopped crying since i got of skype with my friend......
idk what 2 do nemore.....im slowly slipping back down 2 where i was b4.....and i dont want that....i cant go back 2 that.....i just want everything 2 be ok....and 2 be happy again.......

[botwa]

well I think it's too early to feel that crappy. I'm almost sure that the mum of the girls meant not at this very moment, I'm busy because mums are usually pretty straight about what they want and what they do not want so if she was against you she would have probably told it straight away.
I don't know... what could be wrong about your relationship that both her mother and your grandmother are against it? how old are you? why do you think they won't accept it?

[Mara-chan]

....this girl and i have history.....so.....idk whats really happening.....i wanna know whats going on with her....i couldnt read her like i normally could which was very strange......
her mother said that she will support her no matter what.....and im 18.....and when i told my grandmother that i was bi....she tried to yell it out of me and change who i was.....which didnt work.....she never supports nething that i do.....so y would this relationship....that shes completly against....y would she suppor me or nething? her mother can get over the fact that its us....wherewas my grandmother will never get over it.....