Is It The G-Spot?

[lovya90]

whenever my boyfriend fingers me, and goes in really deep, i get sharp pains, traveling up my stomach. I'm not sure if it's a good or bad pain, and i've been trying to get used to it. Is he hitting the g-spot? Is this normal??? :confused:

[Elscire]

sharp pain no, slight urge to pee yes

[ThatCanadianGuy]

NO, this is HURTING you! Don't feel that "confusing sharp pains" is actually pleasure. What your boyfriend is doing is hitting your cervix (which is painful!). Tell him not to go so deep! He doesn't need to!

Okay, this is where your G-Spot REALLY IS. Your G-Spot can be found roughly 2 to 3 inches into your vagina, on the top-most wall (looking form your boyfriends perspective, it would be on the upper part of the vaginal "tunnel"). You can tell if it's your G-Spot, it should feel a bit different than the surrounding skin (G-Spot is circular in shape, about the size of a quarter). Try to find it yourself next time you masturbate alone, and make sure your boyfriend STOPS what he is doing!

I hope this clears everything up. Let me know how things go after this :yeah: .

[Antares]

if it hurts its proably not good

[lovya90]

idk....i mean for me fingering hurts...and is not pleasureable.....i guess u can say this is a new thing....and the guy knwos what hes doing...so is it me?

[ThatCanadianGuy]

NO IT IS HIM. He's going too deep. Maybe other girls he's been with didn't feel any pain bit vagina "length" (how far it goes inside) varies. Have him read my post about the G-Spot, that should keep him from goin so far anymore (even if it doesn't hurt, it's not really that pleasureable, is it?).

[RowanVer.3.0]

It's possible that you're just new to it and it hurts...

It's also possible that he doesn't know what the fuck he's doing.

If he was "experienced" like you said, he'd know how to read the signs that he's hurting you, and to be more gentle.

[ScotsGirl]

How are things going lovya90 ?
Hope youve managed to sort things out...

xxxx

[lovya90]

we havent been able to do it as much...and becuase of that the pain has stopped.....so i think maybe we were just doing it too often....im still not sure why i was getting those pain though..idk...thanks everyone!!

[A to the J]

i wish i knew about giving a girls g spot pleasher...