Too stressed for pleasure

[kiddo2002]

For some reason I carry a lot of stress and when I make love to my girl friend I can't feel her affection, I feel numb, can't even feel pleasure when she gives me an orgasm help me

[CoolGuyXD]

This is tough. What are some signs of affection you want to see? I would talk to her about it. Just say you want to see more affection from her and explain what you mean.

[kiddo2002]

It's not her its me I'm too stressed to think about it

[JeSuisAmericaine]

Just chill. Relax for a while. Don't think about anything. Do you have a hobby or anything that you really love? Honestly, there's more to life than just love and sex. Move to something else, take your mind off it. The two things I know that bring the most stress are school and relationships, so move to something else for a while. When you move back to your original problem, it will be a lot easier. The problem may even be gone altogether.

[SwimRunSleep]

I have the same problem right now, I've been getting in fights and just numb and not thinking about anything spacing off. It's not me.

[sliidz]

try meditation or just completely relaxing your body for 10minutes-1hour daily it should help relief your stress a lot if that doesn't work maybe finding the root of your stress and talk to a doctor or councilor about it.

[Kobra]

The chemical that delivers pleasure to your brain is called Dopamine. You may have trouble feeling pressure while under pressure. But instead of thinking of yourself, think about your girlfriend and her pleasure.