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Wheatley
November 29th, 2011, 05:43 PM
Hey,
Firstly, i was torn between two sub forums because this is friend advice, except I love him, making it relationship advice. Although being general friend advice...

Okay, so I've known this boy in my year for about a year now (was love at first sight if you want) and my feelings have only grown stronger and stronger getting to know him and soending all my free time with him. I (flirt, if you like but I'd call it testing the water) about how he feels with me.

However, I've noticed lately that whenever something comes up that's an opinion thing, he always picks the same as me. At first i thought it was just a coincidence and that we have matching interests, however, its now got to the point where he will say that something is crap (like a tv show), when I say that i like it or dont think its too bad, he will reply saying that either he doesn't mind it or likes it (completely going against what he said 10 seconds ago)

This happens pretty much everyday and with anything and everything from trival tv shows to sexual orientations.

Does this sound strange to you?

He's a fairly unpopular kid, most people hate him (they find him annoying)
So maybe he's just trying to keep me as a friend by agreeing with "common" interests?

He can get quite playful sometimes, pretending he is gay (no examples needed)
But he concentrates hard on one thing at a time (i mean really hard, when he is working or playing a game, the rest of the world is blanked out to him)

Thanks for reading through my never ending post :)