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kevin
May 30th, 2005, 04:58 PM
I'm just so confused. I have a girlfriend, and I love her. But I also like another guy, which makes me feel so guilty about myself. I don't know if I'm straight of Bi or gay. And this really sucks.
Φρανκομβριτ
May 30th, 2005, 05:02 PM
kevin, of all people, you should know that you are probably just having those "teenage feelings"
Anonymous
May 31st, 2005, 12:02 PM
kevin, of all people, you should know that you are probably just having those "teenage feelings"

Exactly what I was going to say.
kevin
May 31st, 2005, 04:13 PM
Why "Me of all people"? I'm no different than anyone else here.
Φρανκομβριτ
May 31st, 2005, 05:23 PM
No, but you have been here for a long time
CamXV
May 31st, 2005, 05:27 PM
Loo, just search your feelings. What would you risk more for? Who would you risk more for? If you were to get to know this guy, would you have the same love for him as you do your girlfriend? Do you even have a chance for this guy? Are you willing to risk loosing your girlfriend to go after this guy? ask yourself these questions.
Sk8erguy065
June 23rd, 2005, 06:14 PM
Ah very good advice
castillo_98
June 28th, 2005, 10:23 PM
Life isn't just black and white... it's many shades of grey.

Don't feel you should have to label yourself, and assign yourself to a category. You don't have to be gay, bi or straight, you just have to be you!

And I would assume that these are just momentary feelings. Don't sweat it, they'll probably go away.

Just don't stress about it and it'll be fine!
WakeUp
June 29th, 2005, 04:53 AM
ye that's such a good point..
Besides you said it yourself you love your girlfriend, how strongly do you feel for this guy?
RunAwayMolly
June 29th, 2005, 12:14 PM
Like you said, you are confused... thats what i would bet anyways... though you might be bi... as long as your still attracted to your girlfriend... yo are mostlikely not gay. Just let it all play out. We all have these kinds of confusing feelings.