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melissagymnast1
November 25th, 2011, 08:03 PM
i am a senior in high school and my boyfriend is a junior in high school. we are sexually active and have sex maybe two times a week. it can happen either at his house or at my house or at other places. similarly, many of my friends are sexually active too (i'm not worried about this part, all of us practice safe sex).

here is my question... about three weeks ago my bf and his friends downloaded an app from the android marketplace called gotlaid. the app allows them to enter each time we have sex, and it sms's his group of friends. it also keeps a score and a newsfeed so all the boys get to see who's sleeping with who and how often. at first i was really offended by this, but now it actually kind of turns me on. is this wrong? i feel a little weird about it, but i check his phone pretending to be upset about it, but really i just want to know if the other girls are doing it more than me.

Ender
November 25th, 2011, 10:46 PM
It sounds kind of slutty to me (the app).

Don't you talk to your friends about your sex life?

I'm sure he does. Why does he need a digital blackbook that keeps a score.

I would confront him. Your sex life is becoming a competition, instead of a couple of high schoolers in love and having fun.

Can'tHelpIt
November 25th, 2011, 11:36 PM
Why is this in Teen Sexuality

Abigballofdust
November 26th, 2011, 03:14 AM
Why is this in Teen Sexuality
Because sexuality is not all about sexual orientation?

OT: I would find that pretty offensive, it would make me feel like he is with me only for the sex. But if you like it, then go ahead. Maybe he is more of a sex partner than a full boyfriend.

Marry the Night
November 26th, 2011, 06:12 AM
Maybe he is more of a sex partner than a full boyfriend.

This is what I'm getting from the situation you described...

lydia.ann00
December 6th, 2011, 07:38 PM
I'd be very put off by it. guys can be real jerks

Short Circuit
December 8th, 2011, 01:47 PM
Sounds very immature to me. Why would he want to tell everyone when and how many times you have had sex? Weird!

deleteextreme
December 29th, 2011, 04:05 PM
Sounds slutty, but if he downloaded he must like it.