Does it even matter?

[shadman]

Ok well first of like a coulpe of days ago I came to a conclusion that I am Bisexual. I like boys and girls, I live the "P" and the "V", ect ect.

Well I havent flirted, dated, or even crushed over a guy before. All the guys around me are hella fake and do not find attractive. Well anyway I think about coming ouy to people, but then whats the ponit!

I live guys emosionlly and deff sexually;). I just haven't really found a guy I conect with. It's easier for me with girls. The big Q is there even a reason to come out of the closet, let alone to my self consiter Bi?

I want to be Bi, but when there is no guys for me even to be with. I think about guys when I j/o ofcorse(not to be too graphic), but after I think what after words about "couddling and kissing" and all that other relationship stuff.

Idk what this post is about. It's more of a rant. It's just I know I'm more into females, but I want to male part to *sigh* sorry for wasting you time, and space on VT. This is prob confusing :P sorry.

Hell right now I'd take a long dis. relationship, just as long as it is a dude :/.

[Wheatley]

Well, in my opinion I think it would be safer to stay in the closet, however, would there be any benefits of coming out? Do you normally talk about sexual stuff with your friends often?

[shadman]

Do you normally talk about sexual stuff with your friends often?

Not really. I have all kinds of different friends. I havent really had a friend I could be that open to. I kinda keep 2 myself lil bit

[Craig1995]

Closets are for clothes dude coming out is a liberating thing and although ots a hard thing to do i would seffos say to comeout at somepoint whetherur ready now or futher into the future. Do it when ur ready :) coming out is also gonna make it more likely to get a bf a guy isnt goin to hit on another guy if he dosent think there into boys :)

[shadman]

Good ponit man. Im just gonna go with the flow lol

[Wheatley]

g coming out is also gonna make it more likely to get a bf a guy isnt goin to hit on another guy if he dosent think there into boys :)

You don't think? I think it has some kind of effect. Not a great one though.

And if you don't really talk about sexual stuff to anyone, there's no real point in coming out...

[shadman]

*sigh* I'm gonna hold back on the "coming out" thing untill I actually find a guy that I find..well you know that I like. :rolleyes:

That and it seems I find the ppl that say their open, but give out or say homifobic things, so I might just stay "strait" untill I move so I maybe open with everyone. :(

Oh well if it happens it happens am I right?