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Smith98
November 25th, 2011, 06:05 PM
Here's the deal: I am really good friends with a guy at school and last week we got to talking about sex toys. He knows I have some and that my sis got them for me. He REALLY, REALLY wants to get one like a pocket vagina or fleshlight, etc. Cuz he thinks it would make it waaay better and more comfortable. The only thing is he lives with his mom (divorce) and doesn't know how to bring the idea up to her. He knows his sister has a vibe and thinks his mom knows about it, so she likely will be okay with it. He says he would just feel way better if she would know he has one so it's not a big secret to worry about and plus he'd need her credit card to order it. What should I tell him? I realize it might be awkward since it's his mom, but idk? Should he write her a note to avoid an awkward encounter or just go for it? Any advice would be greatly appreciated...:confused:

canadaski
November 25th, 2011, 06:25 PM
She will find out either way. If he doesn't tell her directly then she'll see the charge on the credit card statement at the end of the month. I don't think I'd ask my mom to buy me a sex toy, but if his mom is okay with it then It's better she knows about it before he buys it than after.

bigjohnson
November 25th, 2011, 06:47 PM
i would not ask my mom i would prob ask my stepdad.. hes cool with this like that

ShinyGuy
November 25th, 2011, 06:50 PM
Just ask.

curiouse97
November 25th, 2011, 10:04 PM
depends on how open his mom is

Eloise
November 25th, 2011, 10:23 PM
I won't confess i brought a sex toy to my own mother. I mean, there is completely no need to and it is going to be really awkward. :p
I suggest as a position of a friend, i think you should offer to buy for him the toys and charge him to pay you back with his allowance or something like that. :)

Impact13
November 25th, 2011, 11:21 PM
Id personally be to embarrassed to ask for one.