Fights

[Moai]

If anyone saw my previous thread, it was about some guy obsessing over my girlfriend and it was making me feel pretty uncomfortable. Anyway, the other day I was chilling with some friends (They're mostly my girlfriend's friends, but I still talk to them a lot) and a few of them starting making fun of the me about how I was "going to lose her" to that creepy guy. They even went far enough to encourage him to keep trying. I tried to defend my position by saying a few bad things about the douche trying to get her, and my "friends" just completely bitched me out with how I "acted the same way" before.

Luckily, a GOOD friend of mine and myself told that guy to back off, and he got super upset and finally quit trying...for now.

Anyway, I really don't know what to do here, I feel really awkward and like a black sheep while hanging out with them, they're always off doing stuff that I'm not into and crap, and I just feel really awkward like I said. I tried telling my girlfriend plenty of times that I felt weird, and she usually just says "Don't worry about them, they're just messing with you" I know for a fact they AREN'T messing with me, and they're obviously having grudges/jealousy problems with me. Yet she continues to hang out with them like nothing ever happened.

It's made me feel really bad lately, since I actually used to talk to these people a LOT and now I just feel so left out and lonely. I always end up sleeping way too much because I'm too upset to really do anything else. I also feel really stupid for trying to argue back at them and completely getting told off and looking like such a loser.

Sorry for the huge wall of text, and the multiple threads lately. I honestly don't know who else to talk to (all my good friends are off on vacation atm), but I have gotten some pretty good advice here before, and I love you guys :D

[Marry the Night]

I'd say you should keep your relationship with your girlfriend, but maybe try to hang around with your own friends instead of her friends a bit more often? I think that would be a better idea, that way you wouldn't be spending too much time around them and when you are with them, they probably wouldn't be as horrible, because they won't have seen you as much, if that makes sense?

Sometimes, seeing someone so much can make you fed up of them, and maybe that's what they're going through for you. Probably they're partially jealous that your girlfriend spends time with you over them sometimes too (I'm guessing).

Sorry if this made no sense, I'm tired, it's half 12 and I have the worst headache!

[Moai]

It's quite alright, I'm glad I got a response, thank you for the advice :D

Anyway, I still see them a lot actually, so even if I don't hang out with them I end up seeing them a lot. It makes me so mad when she's smiling with them while I feel so awkward even talking to them.