Blowjob Trouble

[tommy-b-10]

My girlfriend gave me a blowjob the other day but i couldnt cum. about 40 minutes into it i could tell she was getting sick of it so i masturbating till i was close then got her to finish just as i came. i was wondering if this is common or something. Thanks!

[mostdeff]

did she use her toung? did she use alot of spit? idk maybe ur not that sensitive, then again if u jack off and cum then seems ur alright, but what makes jerking off more pleasurable? apply that to her BJs

[teendanica]

Maybe you could guide her on doing it.

[bena3217]

mabye she didnt do the BJ right :)

[hypebeastx215]

shes slackin broo

[ShinyGuy]

Yep she slackin

[boyman25]

actually its prolly youre fault you msay have retarded ejaculation. its caused by masturbating to hard or fast or both and it makes it so mouths vaginas (or hopefully not anuses) cant make you cum sorry dude shudnt go at it so hard.

[curiouse97]

wow never had that problum, must be somthing you both are doing wrong

[Hundred Spirited God]

did you hit puberty?if not then thats why your not cummin

[Psychintraining]

It's probably due to a few factors that only you can decide pertain to you; maybe you were nervous (although normally that makes you cum more quickly), maybe she was doing something that turned you off, like using her teeth to much, for example. Normally blowjobs for most guys do not last that long but some of my friends and other guys I've talked with take a very long time to ejaculate, for no reason other than that's just how they are. My close friend for example doesn't cum, even during sex, for hours, even when he is extremely into it. We are all different. I wouldn't worry about it. When it comes to real sex your girlfriend will surely be thankful you can last that long, so she will also be able to cum (meaning it's better than premature ejaculation, which most teens have)

PM me if you have more questions.

[Impact13]

mabye she didnt do the BJ right :)

Theres not really a right or wrong way of doing it..... you use a mouth and something else, it may just be a matter of technique, or just your sexual arousalness you may not be that attracted to BJ'S

[Smith98]

I guess it's better than cumming too early but even that's not a huge deal. For oral it might suck though

[Agera255]

This happens to some people. Most people say there just isn't enough friction to make you come.

[rider15]

Ah! this happened to me before; its realy crap when it does, just try and help her through it :)

[jokermaster101]

yea it is common. maybe you are not as stimulated during oral. but 40 wow. she really wanted to bring you to orgasm

[justinglives]

I find that if the girl (or guy) uses their hand to jerk me off as they go up and down with their mouth it adds enuf extra stimulation to let me jizz.

[peteholloway]

Yeah dude that happened to me too, it's basically just cos there isn't enough grip and it's probably not fast enough either.

So I told my gf about it and we managed to solve it:

What she did was while giving me a bj she didn't just put it in her mouth and go up and down, she moved her tongue around so she was licking my dick at the same time and also if she actually sucks it, rather than just going up and down it feels much better.

Plus get her to tickle your balls during it

[DerBear]

Please don't bump old threads :locked: