Could it mean anything?

[Gummi]

So the other day my girlfriend and I were riding somewhere on a bus, and we were holding hands, and when I was holding her hand she kept our hands on her thigh near her "you know" lol. I don't know if this means anything, but I just wanted to see if it might by asking you guys and girls.

We've never done anything sexual, the closest was kissing, and she doesn't really act like she wants do anything sexual, and I don't think she masturbates (I'm yet to ask) Shes only 13 (Im 14) and we don't talk about sexual stuff at all (we do talk about kissing a lot) So I don't know if she wanted my hand near there or if it was just on accident. I moved my hand down her thigh away from there slowly and she slowly moved it back, so maybe? I got hard at the thought of being an inch away from their, and that she liked it. That was the only time that happened also, I'll update this if it happens again.

I want to know what you guys and gals think, does it mean anything or was it an accident?

Also could I ask her if she ever got "wet" when shes around me and we're cuddling or kissing or whatever? I want to know really bad, and maybe then she will tell me if she masturbates. Whats the worst that could happen? I've known her for 3 years and we've been dating for 2 months.

Thanks.

*Also, I didn't mean having sex with her. I don't plan to have sex for a while (couple years) I meant sexual as in masturbating with eachother, and stuff like that.*

[Eloise]

Well, does she respond well to the kisses and cuddles? If the results was not really positive, it was probably an accident, likewise, if the results was positive it could mean that she really wants..you. One suggestion, if you want to know whether she masturbates, you can try talking to her on a phone for sometime and then slowly approach the subject, just make sure she's comfortable and i think you'll be fine.

Putting that aside, i think you guys are a little too young to have intercourse i mean my vagina was inflexible as hell when i started masturbating and yes, i was 13. Maybe you give yourselves a few years and get to know each other better before having a little sexy time with your girlfriend. :P

[Ben4ever]

I don't believe she meant it to be a sexual gesture. I believe she just wanted you to hold her closer. She may be feeling vulnerable and in need of you to comfort her.

I agree with Eloise, you are still to young to have sex. You could seriously hurt her and ruin sex for her. Trust me, let your bodies grow and let your hormones stop raging before you try anything. It will be much better and in that time you two can get closer. Work on your relationship and learning her physical cues for you. I hope this helps:)

[itsthat0n3kid]

yea, she probably didnt mean it like that.
but hey, you can always find out.
-Chris

[Gummi]

I didn't mean having sex with her. I don't plan to have sex for a while (couple years) I meant sexual as in masturbating with eachother, and stuff like that.

And she really loves when we cuddle and kiss and stuff. She wants to cuddle all the time, and so do I.

I mostly just want to know if she masturbates and stuff so I can talk to her about it because I want to find a girl to talk to that stuff about.

Thanks for your opinions though.