why do girls play these games

[josh cassano]

im so f*cking tired of all these games with relationships. and i would rather a girl walk up to me and say i like you because unless you some really ugly looking girl or a total loser he/she will say yes because all most guys/girl care about is looks in my school no one cares about what they have in common. cause im not great looking but i got a personality i am funny, very nice, smart, caring , giving (i ll get you anything), not pushy (i dont try to get very sexual unless i know she wants to).

WHY DO GIRLS DO THIS?
because i hate it especially in my school because there are 47 guys in my grade and less than 16 girls.

[bach92]

well as far as i know i think that happens because girls have the need of feel loved, it is not about the ego i think it is just part of what they are remember boys and girls are diferent its supose that boys are stronger and girls need to be loved

[Cocacolafan]

Same problem here, well I don't exactly know if I would be classified as butt ugly but still the same freaking problem

[Mortal Coil]

It's cause we're so scared of rejection. I know that I'm terrified of asking a guy out but then again I am a total loser in my school.
Also there's the double standard where the guy askes the girl out (unless you're in Australia,) and I know that a lot of teenage girls aren't too worried about advancing the feminist movement on that front.
Sorry you're having trouble with girls, but know that not all of us try to play games like that, I make a huge effort not to (or would, if I could get into a relationship:whoops:)

[beccaweiser]

I think that, in your case, josh, part of the reason is in the numbers you mentioned. Girls where you are can be pickier, so maybe (even if subconsciously) they do so and that manifests sometimes in a bit of an attitude whether or not that's what they wanted to have happen...

[Electra Heart]

Eesh, well I can guarantee you that not all girls are like this... Odds are, out of those 16 girls, there's ONE of them who isn't as superficial as the rest. If not... well... try outside of school, or wait until high school or college or whatever.

[LuckyLuke]

unless you some really ugly looking girl or a total loser

but i got a personality i am funny,very nice, smart, caring , giving (i ll get you anything), not pushy (i dont try to get very sexual unless i know she wants to).



Those things don't fit one another.

You may think you're nice and caring but by saying what you said earlier, you're totally getting rid of that.

The thing is, girls don't like complaining and pointing out how great you are. You're doing both. Instead, how about you make an effort and confront a girl.

Good luck and best wishes.

[Saxophone 44]

I have about 150 girls in my grade, and they never say if they like you. There's been one girl that has upfront said that to me, but that's after she has been stalking me for 3 months. She's gone out with a complete ass hole just to make me jealous and then she tried to ask my friends about my turn-ons. My best friend told her that I think she's a slut, and then she giggled and said I was so hot. My point is, the only girls that will flat out tell you are either desperate or sluts or creeps. A couple exceptions, but for the most part, girls won't say that.

[Silicate Wielder]

Depends on the girls personality, Some are outgoing enough to ask a guy and really don't care (Or are REALLY desperate) and others want guys to ask them. I remember my 1st year of 6th grade, i had me first girlfriend and aparently i was her first boyfriend. But she wasn't desperate. while another was REALLY DESPRATE to where she would go out with almost anyone and had a friend ask me out for her, I didn't exactly agree but apparently she was afraid that not having a boyfriend meant that she wasn't able to be popular. or something.

[josh cassano]

damn i posted this a long time ago i forgot about this

[christianteen]

I really don't think girls care about looks only.