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[Moai]

Well I've been dating my girlfriend for a few months, we both love each other like crazy, but one thing has just really been getting me lately. TONS of guys flirt with her, it pisses me off to know end. She knows that two of them actually have a huge crush on her, one of them is even obsessed enough to write her a huge essay about it. On the two I just mentioned, she said she'd feel bad if she told them to back-off, and I've tried to talk to her that it's making me feel uncomfortable, and she said that I should trust her more, which I do, but I don't trust THEM. And with the rest of the guys, she doesn't ever seem to notice that they're flirting with her, and she thinks of them as normal friends. The worst part is some of them rub it in my face about it.

I know I'm being overly jealous, but this has really been annoying me lately. What should I do?

[anonymous53]

Talk to her about it, but you need to respect the fact your girlfriend has MALE friends. You can ask her nicely to just be "cold" to any of their flirting.

[Jupiter]

It's almost like me staying single because no girls trust me because 98% of my friends are girls. If you really love her, you'll trust her. If she loves you, she'll do anything to keep you.

[tardis20]

If you have a desirable girl, this crap is going to happen. Always.

My girlfriend had a guy who kept sending her pictures of his dick while we were dating. She didn't think it was wrong to tell him not to. She thought it was funny and showed her friends. I had to explain to her what was a proper way on how to handle guys aggressively coming onto her. Flirting is flirting. Like I said it happens, but they should be defending you and your love when a dude comes up to her and makes some serious moves.

[Eagle63]

shouldnt you trust her b4 you love her? think about it.