Please please please help me!!!!

[juan]

So im in love with a boy and I may be hanging out with him tonight*I REALLY think *he's bi or gay because he acts as if he was but he says he's straight anyway I want to *tell him that I'm bi and that I love him but I don't know how to do it or what to say*
Please help me!! *
I'm 15 y/o*

[CoolGuyXD]

Well i dont think you should say you love him until you know for sure hes bi or gay. I think its okay to say your bi. Dont try and push it so much. Just go with the flow and see if he feels the same way

[OhMightyLion]

No offense but are you sure you LOVE him...maybe you just have a crush or feel attracted to him. You can talk to him in private (preferably in person) and tell him "I'll understand if you don't feel the same way but I just wanted to let you know that I like you..." and yeah, whatever...idk

[CryWolf]

Hello Juan! That's a tough one man. I agree though that you shouldn't tell him you love him right away. Initiate some convo about your overall attractions. In other words let him know you think you're bi. Keep the convo general at first. Ask him his opinion on being bi, that kind of thing. I'm not saying be dishonest. It's just that strong topics that carry a lot of emotional substance can freak people out at first and all at once and they react sometimes defensively or differently than how they really feel. Just take it slow and let things progress. Good luck man. :)

[BaNd]

may i suggest you dont tell him that all in one night jsut saying

[Antagonist]

This happened to me in September. I didnt have to tell him aything... someone told him. I would see if hes bi/gay, then see if ur truly IN love with him, ir if its a crush or infatuation.

[Jstr]

Leave it to time

[juan]

I am in love it's not just a crush on him

[superstarB]

mabey just tell him your sexuality then see what he is then, tell him the l word

[OnlyOneChance]

Just ask him if he is bi or gay! Tell him he can be completely honest with you! And that maybe you are questioning your sexuality. But be sure you are bi/gay first. I know it's not a decision and that if you are you are born that way. But hormones can make your question being bi or gay sometimes. So just make sure you are bi before you ruin a friendship.

[curiouse97]

wow thats as a tuff one, you must first find out if he is bi or gay. then take it slow.dose he know your gay??