Judging people by their appearance.

[Breath-of-air]

After my old online bf broke up with me, my best friend (online) of about 3 months told me that he loved me and his feelings for me. So I am with him now, everything is great. He is much better and I am a lot happier with him.

The thing is he is a different race. (Mongolian) I don't care at all of course. It's just I realized how judgemental people are since being with him. I don't understand what is wrong with so many people.

Example- My sisters bf who is also online actually messaged me saying how he thinks that my bf isn't good for me and there is something wrong with him. He said he thinks he is gross looking and said to my sister (his gf) that I must be mentally challenged to be with someone like that. That I could be with someone so much better looking.

I personally think my bf is gorgeous. It's just that so many people are commenting on the way he looks and it's really bothering me. I don't care what they think but I don't want to tell him about it.

Have any of you been judged a lot on your appearance? or like have a bf/gf who is?

[anonymous53]

Yes I have, my response was always "They're attractive to me, so what's your problem?"

[Levy]

I've been judged constantly, my response is, "You wish you could pull this off!". As long as I feel good about myself, or the person I'm involved with, I could care less about others.

[Cloud]

if they are really that shallow then let them drown in their own vanity. if you love someone then no matter what they look like to other people, they will look amazing to you, its just how it goes. if you like them, youll like pretty much everything about them, including the way they look.

It annoys me when people say oh she could do so much better, because her boyfriends ugly, completely ignoring the fact that her boyfriend may be a grade A cunt, but instead noticing that to them he looks like sloth from the gooonies

[Breath-of-air]

Yes I have, my response was always "They're attractive to me, so what's your problem?"

I'm going to say that now, I can't believe I never thought of saying it.

I've been judged constantly, my response is, "You wish you could pull this off!". As long as I feel good about myself, or the person I'm involved with, I could care less about others.

I completely agree with you.

if they are really that shallow then let them drown in their own vanity. if you love someone then no matter what they look like to other people, they will look amazing to you, its just how it goes. if you like them, youll like pretty much everything about them, including the way they look.

It annoys me when people say oh she could do so much better, because her boyfriends ugly, completely ignoring the fact that her boyfriend may be a grade A cunt, but instead noticing that to them he looks like sloth from the gooonies

I know it is very annoying, I feel kinda bad for thinking this but my sisters bf is a complete asshole. LOL to the second paragraph.

[xxbunkxx]

its the worst thing a person can do so dont judge a book by its conver

[Breath-of-air]

oh yeah I know, it is.