I am so confused....

[Dimitri]

Okay, so I met this guy named Luke, he is a few years younger than me but for some reason we hit it off really well. I have a personal dating rule, I do not date anyone two years younger or two years older. He likes me a lot, I even stopped by his work and I didn't know what to do or that he even really like me, I didn't know for sure but he kissed me, HE KISSED MEH!!!!

I have been metro all my life, and to be any different is against my religion, I am a Sunday School teacher for Christ sake, Judas Fucking Priest!!!! I have just accepted myself as being bi, I stopped dating my girl friend because she was a bitch and so evil.

When we started talking we would text constantly, everyday but all of a sudden over the last three days he won't really respond, I know he works but I only text when I know he isn't at work and when he isn't at school because I value education and I want him to do the best that he can without me bugging him.

I am sorry for all of this and its length but I need some help to figure this out, many of you know me and know I am not one to ask for help, I normally am the one giving it. But I just do not understand this at all, he went away today too the top of the state but when I asked him 'What for man?" he wouldn't say.

I don't know if I am being paranoid about this or if I should actually be worried or if he just actually doesn't like me, what should I do.

I am used to rejection, it has been a huge part of my social life going through high school but what should I do????

Btw, he is about to be 17 and I turned 19 in august this year.... and we are both bi....

Need to make a clarification, it is not because of my religion that I cannot date two years above or below, those are my rules and the religion thing is that my whole family is against the whole homosexuality thing

[Amaryllis]

Hey sweetie. I am in no way religious so I really don't understand the problem with dating men and women older or younger than you. 2 years? Why? I doubt mother mary and Saint Joseph were the same age. Does it really matter? Either way, I can't give much advice on the age factor.

On the other hand, with this guy you're interested in, several things could be happening.

1. He's busy. A lot of the time when people talk to me, I just don't have the time to talk back or I'm multi-tasking. He could be busy studying or socialising, as well.

2. He's bored. As bad as this sounds, it isn't as bad as it sounds. Kids generally have short attention spans. It doesn't mean they're 100% bored of you as a person, but they could just be mildly bored, so they don't feel like talking. This doesn't mean you no longer have a chance with him, it just means you both need a little break from each other.

3. He's interested in someone else. This, however, does not mean he isn't interested in -you-. He could just be interested in multiple people. That's perfectly normal, he's young and he wants to experiment and be free. Relationship commitments are pretty hard to commit to. He just doesn't want to be tied down as of yet.

4. You're being overly paranoid. A lot of people just forget to reply or they just don't feel like it. Some people just don't want to tell others stuff about them. It probably doesn't mean anything at all. Perhaps he doesn't even realise what he's doing.

You should give him some space, Robert. Just stop texting him for a while, if he's interested, he'll come at you. Or maybe not, if he's not one to chase after guys. Either way, give him some time and then approach him. That or ask him if he'd prefer it if you'd stop texting him, but do it subtly. Don't blunt out say it and end up sounding whiny. Good luck, honey! And if anyone doesn't like you, well, their loss xP

<3

[Dimitri]

Okay, me and the lil'***** are done, I asked him to lunch last week and he said he had to ask, I am fine with that but he was like "I will get back to you asap!!!!" but he didn't, I thought he might have gotten into a fight with his mom or something. But never got an answer.

Yesterday i asked him again for today and he said "I can't....I have to stay at home, mom said so." And I was like "okay, gotta respect mom." But the kicker is while on Facebook he posts 4 minutes later "Who wants to go to the mall right now?"

Really, you stupid ass mother fucker, I am not the smartest person in the world but when you put it all over Facebook someone is bound to notice. I mean, really? If you don't wanna hang out then just say it, I am used to rejection, I have been rejected my whole life because I was the nerdy one, what makes you think you are so special that I won't be able to take it.

FUCK OFF!!!!

/RANT