Advice Wanted

[paradisecoldplay]

Hi, I’d like to get some advice from you guys.

There’s this girl at school whom I really like, I started to have feelings for her just recently, and she’s a classmate (I’m in 9th grade), We’ve been chatting lately via FB the past week, and when we’re in school, I just glance from time to time and smile back, and talk to her if there was a chance, but not the I’m-interested-in-dating-you talk, just casual.

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Now, a bunch of Qs in my mind:

Now, how do I ask her out? When can I have the perfect moment?

How do I talk to her when she’s in a group of girls? What topics do you suggest when I talk to her, because I’m blank and somewhat used all the clichés in the book.

What would I do if she says no to a date (cinema, perhaps)? What will I say and act? What if maybe?

What if yes, that’s a win, but how do I act around her the next day and so on?

Assuming she said yes…

Do I kiss after first date? If not, when? (in general) (lips or cheek?)

How many dates (or days/weeks) does it take to make the relationship exclusive? (in general)

How do I ask her to officially become my GF?

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Too much ‘What if’s’ eh? Thank you in advance, lol I suck really, never been on a date before. :yes::yes:

[Antagonist]

There are many ways to ask out a girl. You could show signs of you being interested in her, then see if she acts in a positive or negative way. Or you could jist blatently ask her out.

The worst topic you could bring up is school. Try some celebrity news or something, like the whole "Bieber Baby" thing.
If she says no, never ask why, because to many girls it sounds creeperish. If she says maybe, add on, like times, dates ect.
If she say yes, act happy, and just be nice. Maybe flirty.
Do not kiss her on the first date. Maybe the second when she can get a better idea of you.
Two weeks is a good time to say its exclusive.
I would just say "Soo... are we bf and gf?"

I hope this helps,

Noah.