R.I.P. dad....

[shadowhog6]

My dad had passed away a couple years ago. I was going through the grief and all that at first. then it went away. now its hitting back even harder than before. i mean im shaking and crying.....somone help me please...

[redcar]

Sorry to have to say this but you are just going to have to ride it out. My dad died when I was 5, but I only really grieved about 2 years ago. It just hit me one day I don't have a dad and everyone else does, and it started from there. It's good you are letting it all out, otherwise you would be bottling it up and that is not a good thing to do.

[Bobby]

Yes, you can't do anything but ride it out. Try to remember the good times you had with him.

[some1]

You're going to have times like this. Sometimes, you feel like you've moved on and then its hits you again. Its normal, just grieve when it comes

[jak]

I'm in the same boat as you. My father died just a year ago. I never really got over it. What does make me feel alot better is thinking of all the good times we had or something funny he did. Also, being more open and talking about him like it's no big deal helps you deal with the pain.

[amos]

im sorry about your dad, i never met my dad so i hav lived with out all my life and i find it hard still. im 17 nearly 18 and i still go thougth stages of wishing i had dad like most people do

but you will get past it, it will come and go, i know it hurts and there no words for how much you want it and need a dad. i also now there nothink that can replace your dad or the feeling i know

but even though it hurts so much try be around the rest your family and your frineds it shall help bit more when you cry go hug your mum or someoen close to you if you like hugs that is

im sorry about you dad i rlly am :(

My dad had passed away a couple years ago. I was going through the grief and all that at first. then it went away. now its hitting back even harder than before. i mean im shaking and crying.....somone help me please...

[Flooned]

My dad had passed away a couple years ago. I was going through the grief and all that at first. then it went away. now its hitting back even harder than before. i mean im shaking and crying.....somone help me please...

grief consist of 5 things

Denial - denying the even never happened (lying to yourself)

Anger - WTF i hate you god why me???!!??

Bargaining - as if you could bargain with the grim reaper himself, as if you could give him something to get the dead person back

Depression - complete sorrow of the loss

Acceptance - you accept the fate and move on

you said you have gotten thru grief, and now its coming back worse. ive only heard of this a few times and its only because of the event reoccurs or the person meant so dearly and needed to be with his/her family to support them.

your mom probably reminds you of your dad and if you look anything like him this might also impact you.

try to accept the grief once more and maybe it wont caome back =/

[CryingEye666]

ok i agree and disagree with you guys who say, think of all the good times he had with his dad. i agree with you, so then its just reminicsing everything thats good about it and how it was fun and stuff. but the bad part about it is, that, the kid might be thinking of all the good times, and then suddenly realize he wishes he could still have those good times with his dad, then he might get depressed. so i agree and disagree with what ya said. and by the way, its weird how life works, like, you'll never get your own real father, or mother, back. or anyone really, once you're dead, you're.. never coming back...

[theonetheycallbob]

I'm not quite where you are, I'm a couple years behind, I lost my dad about ten months ago. Greif comes everynow and then, sometimes strong, sometimes not. There is only one thing that really gets me through, praying. God is your daddy in heaven, he loves you and will help you through anything. Always remember that. I'm here if you need help, I know that I'm a little behind you, but I feel as if I can help.

[CryingEye666]

ermm...
thats if you .. believe in god though which i dont
so he's not everyones 'daddy' in heaven